Hey guys!

What's going on? I'm pretty new here but I figured I'd come and try to smooth some rough patches I've been having with women. As of now, I'm a twenty-year old college student who's had a total of three girlfriends in his life. I'm pretty athletic but definitely shorter than average (5'6"). Experience-wise, I've never really had too much problems getting some of the girls I was interested in, but my problem has always been that.. I think I'm definitely too nice and I feel pretty hurt once these relationships turned pretty sour. As a new years resolution, I really want to try my hand at 'toughening' up and not getting too attached to ladies who definitely have it within them to cause some serious damage.

Sports-wise, I do judo and jiu-jitsu (blue belt in JJ) and play the piano (though admittedly not as much now that I've been getting deeper into school). I came from a very female-dominated household where the ladies pretty much run the roost (a lot of sisters, dragon-lady mother), so a big problem I've had has been putting women - all women - on a pedestal of sorts and not really getting a lot of 'bro-advice' regarding dating and the like. Now that I'm away from home, I'd like to explore all other avenues of life and definitely could use some help there. I just got off another breakup a few months ago and I think I need to jump back into the scene, though not nearly as seriously as before.

Thanks Guys,

- Iggy