A girl I'd met previously a few years ago(HB8.5) popped up on FB as a suggested friend. Thought I'd fire straight in and messaged her some chat (negs with compliments and acting quite cocky) which didn't take long to get her number. Continued via text message over a few hours and she agreed to come to my house on Thursday night .

Now I'm gonna freeze and not know what the fuck to say when she turns up, seems she has more balls than me to do this haha.

Question is, how do I act today and tomorrow up until she comes round, then when she comes round how should I be acting as never done this before...just out of a relationship and having success on nights out drinking but this will be completely sober

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wait for her to text you first of all. if she's coming over and you haven't worked mid game then i would suggest u cancel. this will definitly show your not easy and make it a challenge for her. plus it will suprise her which makes you look more ballsy and of HV. then reschedule for lunch or something with low sexual pressure. if u feel like a kiss close is appropriate then do so. if not meet a few days later for something a little more. work keno. then have her come over to your place to "watch the new movie you just got". this will give her an excuse and get past her ASD. when she comes over. start to watch the movie, then make out with her, once it starts to get a little heavy stop the mood and say "hold up, i think we're moving to fast, i feel like theres a special chemistry between us and i dont want to ruin that" she will then start making out with u because of how horny she is, this keeps the cat chasing the string, and you get laid.

I agree with Joe. That's a good game plan. However, canceling on a girl who is potentially DTF is counter productive. But the strategy of doing that is sound. What you could try doing is calling her and telling her that you might have to work that night or something, but you will try to get someone to cover for you. That way it seems like you might be cancelling, but also shows her that you are making special arrangements to see her, in which case she'll be less likely to cancel on you once you tell her that you will be able to see her after all.

Then once she gets there, act really interested in her on a completely non-sexual level (at first). Tell her that the last thing you are looking for is another relationship. Tell her you've been tired lately and have really low-sex drive. Tell a DHV story about some girl who really likes you that you don't feel like wasting your time on. Then start making incidental contact with her doing indirect kino. This will create an amazing amount of attraction for her. Then look for ioi's and start doing more kino and tell her that you are suprised by the fact that you all of sudden feel so drawn to her.

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Well she came round last night drunk and so was I. No issues really apart from her being an absolutely awful ride! She doesn't ever give head and never has. She just lay there like a sack of potatoes. No energy at all. Then did some weird grind on me until I got bored and fell asleep. What a let down. Still got laid though. Result.