Hey guys,

I'm relatively new to the game. I'm 21 years old and I've been sarging for about 6 months.

I gained interest in pick-up because of a year long dry spell. The more desperate I got, the worse my prospects got, and the more I realized how little I really knew about attraction and pick-up and general. My father was absent for most of my adolescent life, so I was predominantly raised by my mother. My mother is a loving Christian woman, who unfortunately worked hard to teach me all the wrong lessons about women. She taught me to be the sweet guy, always compliment women and open doors for them. Because of her resentment for the asshole, popular guys from her youth, she trained me to put women on a pedestal.

As a result, I contracted an classic case of nice guy syndrome. I became great friends with all the women I wanted to sleep with, then was devastated when they began seeing someone else.
Through strokes of luck I was able to get hookups in high school and college.

Now, I want to reverse the roles. I want to have options for which women to sleep with on a given week. I'm not in a huge rush, and it's not all about the numbers (although I like the numbers).

I'm a natural opener, no qualms there. My favorite techniques are cocky-funny and using a sort of siritual approach such as "soul-gazing."

Reply to let me know that other similar guys are here and that this is a good online community to be a part of.

-NashSmash

have you joined the local lair?

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NashvilleLair/

Hey dude Nashville pua here as well and we pretty much have the exact same story when it comes to the ladies my friend. I am 25 and looking to get a lot better with pick up and just my all around game in general. Think you could help me?