I was joking around with the girl I've been talking to and I told her im going to London for a year (im really not, and she knows it lol)

Me
5:02pm : Can I come over? I'm bored
5:02pm : Plus, it's my last day here heheheh

Her
5:04pm : Liarrrrr
5:04pm : But um......no. Hahah no boys allowed.

Me
5:04pm : But i'ma man, baby!

Her
5:06 pm : Lol lol lol

Me
5:06pm : ......i'm outside

Her
5:11pm : Zzzzz

Me
5:15pm : I like................. (is this the proper way of building tension?)

Her
5:15pm : Like what???
8:35pm : Kind of
8:36pm : You're the sweetest

( I haven't said anything to her since I've said, "I like..................")


What should I say now? What should I say I like? I was thinking of saying "Myself"

Would that work?

Bump....there's a bunch of spammers that need to get banned....all of the real topics are getting flooded out by the spam.

Look up Braddock's text game. I think he wrote a book or an e-book or something similar to it, but if you google him you should find some of his forum posts or articles. Definitely read those.

Here is an excerpt from what he and Savoy wrote:
http://www.braddocksblog.com/phone-and- ... me-basics/

Read that.

Regarding your texts.

Don't ask her, tell her. You want to have a confident frame and you want her to know you're able to make decisions and lead her. That's how biology is and how males and females always interacted. Saying "I'm coming over" is already better, but is still plain. There is a ton of things you could say, just depends on your frame, situation, etc.

Don't tell her you're bored. She should know you have other things going on in your life- your time is important and she should want to know try to fit into it. The truth is that 99% of all girls lives are not what we imagine they are. Just as you are sitting there being bored, she is most likely sitting there being bored as well. Saying "I'm bored" is pretty much saying "I'm boring." If you don't know about DHV, read about it here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/gene ... -post.html

I'm pretty direct over texts and don't game over them, so I would have said something similar to "I want to see you tonight" or "It's my last night here, come spend it with me." If she says yes, good. If she says no, I would just not text back. Once again, I don't do text game anymore and I only text to set up meetings.

I feel like the rest of the conversation would have gone differently if you would have opened differently. Perhaps also don't text her back right away. Let her anticipate and check her phone a few times making sure she didn't miss that text from you.

I did the I like.... thing when I was texting in 7th grade. You're not building tension since it's obvious that you're applying that you like her. It's really generic and childlike in my opinion. Be more fun than that. I have no idea what she meant by her last texts. If it was I, I would assume this one is lost for that night and hit her up in 4-5 days. I think both of you confused right now with what's going on in that text thread and the best thing would be to stop digging the hole.

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regarding her last texts, i was thinking the same....maybe she was saying "Kind of" as a reply to me saying "I'm a man, baby"

And im confused by the "you're the sweetest" text as well...

and regarding this
"Don't ask her, tell her. You want to have a confident frame and you want her to know you're able to make decisions and lead her. That's how biology is and how males and females always interacted. Saying "I'm coming over" is already better, but is still plain. There is a ton of things you could say, just depends on your frame, situation, etc."

Well, that's the thing. We are both really, really stubborn. It took us like 3 hours sitting in the car figuring out where to eat because everything she brought up i said no and everything i brought up she said no....lol....ok not literally 3 hours but it took a while...and when we finally do get to a place....she looks at the menu and wants to go somewhere else....hahahhaa

Hah, if you know of a place she likes, just say "We're going to [that place]"
I feel that you're stubborn, but your goal isn't to eat at the place you want to. Your goal is to build attraction. Let her thing you also like that place and you both have something in common/similar interests. Be a fucking tactician. Give some up in order to win more.

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Well I was TRYING to build the asshole and didn't care image. Lol.

Yeah i know the place she likes. But we're not going there every single time!

The goal of going to dinner for me, is to get some dank food. And hopefully score. But honestly the dank food comes first....hahahhahah

Get some food with another girl and then hit her up after. BOOM. BOOM.

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Looks like she was pretending to respond to someone elses text, so you would reply.

Your text game is really weak, and wont improve until you improve your actual game and mindset. That braddock guide will only help you so much...

Got any pointers for me? How do i make my text game "not weak" what mindset should i be in? I feel like you're just here to bash on people and not help lol.

Anyways, i still haven't responded and then last night she hit me up

the last text she sent me was

Her
8:36pm : You're the sweetest

Then she texts me this????

Her
1:56am : You're so weird!!!!!!

(Then I finally reply.....is that failing the shit test?)

Me
2:14am : Huh?? I was goin to txt u when i get home. But it was late so i figure i txt u tmrw. Night baby

Her
2:19am : Hmpt

Vietnamese is completely correct, your text game is weak and it seems like you didn't even listen to me in the other thread.
Jesus christ man NOT RESPONDING DOES NOT GET HER WET, you want to leave gaps between your text when its the right time to build tension. You should also only not responding when shes begging for more verbally but isn't going to act physically that night. For example:

Her: I'm so cold, my house is freezing and my bed is rubbish!
Me: I'll come over and keep you warm.
Her: tsktsk not tonight.
Me: Silly girl, I know all the right ways to get you hot.
Her: Like?

This is when I wouldn't text back till the next day and reopen with something completely different to throw her off balance. For your sake because you seem really bad at this il add some extra detail for you.

*in the morning*

Me: Morning lazy, <insert standard random opener here>
Her: Why didn't you text me back last night?
Me: I've got a busy day today, I need ma beauty sleep. <be vague and DHV yourself.
She gives you a compliment and you decide not to text back? Being called sweet and cute by a girl is a good thing. Girls don't walk around using the words "hot" and "banging" like men do. They use words like sweet, cute for guys and hot for celebrities.
This is a shit test, she wants to see your reaction when she insults you. To see if you reply or act different when you insult her.
no.
This isn't failing it but it definitely isn't passing it. Its just shit, I don't understand what makes you think anything about this text will make her want to have sex with you or increase her attraction to you. Also don't respond to a girl after 2am for ANYTHING apart from an obvious booty call. A better reply would be

Her: You're so weird.
Me: I know right, keeps you on your toes tho < BE CHEEKY MAN!
Now she's just pissed off and wants you to know it (which is good but shes still pissed off which is bad) before she goes to sleep.

You seriously need to take a step back and READ what people on here are telling you. Stop trying to be a cold, harsh dickhead to the girl because it simply won't work.

Seriously you would need to find a proper braindead skank who loves having her hands tied to her ankles whilst being fucked my multiple different colored dicks whilst being called a whore, slut, bitch or whatever to be able to get away with treating her like shit 24/7.

I am reading!! I take in every single one of your tips and try to blend it into my personal life. I will begin reading The Game. Also, WHY should i stop being a cold, harsh dickhead? Isn't it working now? Becuase I would say she likes me???? Don't you think so?

And LOL, any advice for trying to find a brain dead skank?

There's a big difference between a girl liking you and a girl dropping her panties and letting you fuck her.

A girl can like/love a friend emotionally, you will end up friendzoned if you don't take the leap, be a man and communicate with her.

Brain dead skank wise you can have my last FB's number but she's fucking mental/plays games like a bitccccch.

How do I make it so shes droppin her panties for me? haha.

There's a difference between being an asshole and being cocky. Asshole example: Heather your a bitch. Cocky/Funny: Heather you have an attitude, maybe you need some spankings ; ). Women are attracted to alpha males and yes being an asshole can show amog traits but it can also mean your an asshole who has no fun. Instead of texting call her! Show some other alpha characteristics by taking her to a place you like but fun that serves good food like a bar and grill! Perfect place to have fun, build rapport, kino, then close. Idk bout the dank food comment. Yes I love a good slice of prime rib too but I'll settle for a hamburger with a side of ass when we go home.

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Haha word, i know what you mean. LOL i was being sarcastic about the dank food part.