I am a simple man, so sorry for my lack of vocabulary and mental masturbation... But if you want an easy guarantee way to get laid, get to the point were you can give a woman a massage, it does many things if you do it right: first women love massages, so they will never reject a massage, it almost completely kills the asd (anti-slut defense), it relaxes the girl, and the main part if you do it right IT TURNS HER ON A LOT, and built tension and anticipation...other tips, music, masagers (the weird cheap ones at the malls, also when you bring a girl back to the house telling her that you got a show her something back home, mystery, you can pull out the massager and say "here is the surprise and immediately start with her back) candle lights and lightning and all that gay shit a plus but not needed...Concentrate on the regular massage for the first 5-15 minutes, then switch gears to erotic massage(massage in ways that stimulate the pussy without touching it, for example upper tights and butt) if you do not believe me the crazy effects of a massage, google hidden/spy carama japanese massage porn... Also i highly recommend the book sex god, by Rose for bedroom skills.... And also lesbian massage porn... Yes i am a pervert and proud of it! By the way for all the nay sayers and haters before you jump in, i already got people on the forum laid with this...

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Not gonna hate man, this is solid advice. Massage is a great way to get started.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I agree 100%. It's also surprisingly easy to get them to get naked for a massage. You start massaging them through their clothes, then run your hands underneath, then break out some massage oil or lotion or whatever and they'll get naked without a second thought. I love massaging women. I find that the neck is a great place to escalate. Work on their neck and shoulders a little, then rub a little softer and more sensual, and lean in and start kissing them on the nap of their neck, and you can pretty much do whatever you want after that.

Anyone got massage tips? I've massaged ex girlfriends and they all said it was great, but I don't know... Had no idea what I was doing really. Any videos or something?

pm me privately...

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where do u learn to massage?

always think that guy who can massage is real hot (not in a gay way)

Really getting touchy is what its all about. Massage is good.

I sometimes watch TV with a girl (when I was still in uber PUA mode) then kind of hug her and see her comfort to it. I would also show her a vid online or something and make her sit on my lap. It just worked well.

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I've used "true blood" before because it's a pretty popular show that women want to watch, but it's filled with all kinds of graphic sex scenes. So I'd watch that with them snuggled up with them on the couch. And then get a little frisky as the sexual tension in the air built up.


On a side note, although a full on massage is super effective. Don't forget that subtle massage tricks can also be used as kino throughout the night. If I've kinoed enough and feel there is enough comfort, I've just reached over and started massaging the back of a woman's neck with one hand, like when we driving or something. And if I have two hands free and we're waiting in line or something, you could do a mini-shoulder massage. This won't turn them on like a real massage, but it does two things: gets her used to your touch, and makes her feel more comfortable later to get an actual massage from you.

I like to use this technique on girls who make me stop when I make my move to foreplay. I'll normally be like "wow you seem tense. You could probably use a massage! I give AMAZING messages!" Then I have them lay down and work them down slowly till they're naked. Within 30 minutes you will be balls deep.

This is proven stuff...

I have done it at the office to my coworkers and Im sure there must be a way in wich you can turn her fucking imagination on and the next day she would like to take you home.

I know Im asking too much, but is there a way to make a sexual massage non sexual on the looks to others so you know the girl would be anxious to take you home?

The sexual massage is to be used in isolation pre-sex(foreplay), after a regular massage... if is in public is a regular massage... however when i dance with women, i sometimes do subtle things like gently caressing the earlobe, and doing with my long finger clitoral type moves but in the hips while dancing(kind of complicated to explain)... Anyways giving a regular massage will not make a girl anxious to take you home, you have to do the work, again this is for a close deal, when she is at home to transition smoothly to sex.

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Skills, I have a question for you. Have you ever just kissed a girl as soon as you walked in then ripped her clothes off then bent her over a counter and fucked her? Completely by surprise and overwhelmingly aggressive.

Not a stranger! Done it with girls that have already been with me as fwb and girlfriends. But if you are implying a total stranger the answer is no.

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I totally back up what skills360 said. Massages are always a great way to get past the ASD, here is a little guide I show people (Non-Pua's) to help with massaging:

1. Be soft with your initial touches. You don't know about previous/current injuries.
2. Girls like to talk to a lot when getting massaged, tell them to 'shut up and relax.'
3. Tell them to focus on breathing out of there mouth, and in through their nose *Big hint* doing this alone can relax a person. If you are touching them, they will think they are relaxing because of you.
4. Everyone, literally everyone, has tension in their shoulders. Always start there.
5. Like everything in life, the more you do this, the better you will get at noticing tension in different areas.
6. The best tip, find the middle spot of any muscle. Place your index finger on it. As the person breathes in, relax your finger. As the person breathes out, tense and push on the muscle. Keep repeating this until your finger is as tensed as possible, or as far as the person feels comfortable. When you're done, (THIS PART IS KEY), do not remove your finger right away, but VERY SLOWLY relax your finger off the person--the slower the better. Everyone melts with this technique.

If you are scared of being completely inexperienced, I recommend you try this on your friends/family first. Why? Because everyone can use a little back rub every once in awhile, and who's more deserving of a shoulder rub, some HB, or your mother/family members.

Best,
Samex

PS: There is so much more to massages and other benefits besides PU stuff. If you have any questions, please ask.

Samex if you have any videos tutorials i am getting pm a lot on that, i may ask sexaddict who is a massage therapist(has one of the highest lay count coincidence "massage therapist") anyways, for erotic massage i suggest japanesse lesbian hidden camara massage guys...(even if is stage, i do something similar)

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