Hi

a few weeks ago I met a girl in a club, we got on really well.

After, we spoke alot through email/text.

I then asked her if she wanted to come out, she asked me where I was going. I explained I meant just me and her. She didnt reply for hours then said sorry she ended up going out with her parents.

We carried on texting for a week or so, then I ask her again if she wants to come out, she text me back just general conversation, but didnt respond about meeting up.

If she had said no I would have taken it as not wanting to meet up. If she hadnt responded at all I would have taken it as a no, but she carried on messaging me after I asked if I wanted to meet her up...

So what now, I havent spoke to her for nearly two weeks. Should I just ignor it?

persist. 2 weeks is long enough... worst that can happen is she finally says no or nothing again, in which case you have lost nothing.

I can say this.

If she is not complying with your reality, and she is wanting to play her bullshit
games she has always played and got away with, don't let her.

If you really like this girl, tell her the way it is in your reality.
-She's playing by your rules now.

If she then starts to freak out and not want to meet up, stops replying
to your messages, she's clearly met her match. And I would say this
basically portrays a scared little girl who can't handle another confident
persons reality.

Usually these ones are very immature (this is a generalisation, there are exceptions),
they've always had there ass kissed and who the HELL would want to be around this
kind of person anyway !?

Just remember, PUA isn't about the numbers and bragging, it is about what you get out of it,
if you get a hot girl who is 10, but you can't stand being with her, you need to re-assess your
intentions of pua.

She may not be ready for an official date yet. If she's willing to text you, then stop trying to ask her out and just build rapport through texting or talking on the phone. Eventually, texting will only go so far, and it will become clear whether she has any intentions of going out with you in the future.

Then when you do try to ask her out again make it seem like there will be a group there and it's not just you and her. I'm mean obviously this is probably not a very mature girl, but you might be able to work the angle on this one and still end up fucking her. I say it's worth putting a tad more effort into it before soft nexting her.

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