Yo dudes, really need help grasping DHV i know what its is but i dont know how i can use it effectively, any help would be awesome
cheers bros
J

It's actually really simple, I used to be highly confused with this as well.

Good ways to show DHV can be as simple as saying "oh yeah i was with a friend there last week" or something like "Oh yeah that movie, I actually met the lead director!"

It's just ways of showing you have talents, or social capability. That's why i pointed out "oh yeah with a friend, i was hanging out with a few friends doing that, I was at this really cool party the other night"

Something else you can do if they text you or ask what you're doing, if you're doing nothing interesting say it's a secret, and if you're with people doing something fun make it sound even more fun, and DON'T INVITE THEM

This really bugs girls if they have any interest in you cause they're used to guys asking them to hangout all the time.

Trying to make this short and sweet for you, Haha.

hb : what do you drive ?
me : nothing /smile/ (even if you have a car)

hb : nice phone/watch/pen
me : not mine. its my dads

hb : what do you do for free time
me : im just typical boring guy. (first few minutes of interaction) what do you do? (put the pressure on her)

real DHV is not DHV-ing. dont try to show off, dont try to impress chicks. that just shows betaness.
watch crazy stupid love. be the typical boring guy.

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DHV is all about BEING a high value person. Not bragging about it. But let's face it, how many of us are very high value? If you are, great...just keep doing you and it will probably work out well for you. But if you're not, you'll have to APPEAR to be high value WITHOUT bragging about it or showing off.

Some good ways to convey DHV are being part of something bigger. Whether it's a social group, a corporation, a university, or a sports team. I've known tons of people who would always say things like "My mom's, brother's, cousin's, uncle is one of the assistants to the team physical therapist for the Colts! (or insert pro sports team name here)" People will desperately try to link themselves to anything that represents money, prestige, fame, etc'; no matter how detached from it they actually are. Obviously, the closer your link to those things the better it will sound.

Another technique is "been there, done that". You've traveled all over, you've done a bunch of crazy shit. No matter what they say you can tell them that you've either been to that place or done that thing, or been or done something similar. You don't go about this in an annoying way either. If they say they've been to Italy, you say "Oh cool. I've been to France and Spain. I always wanted to see Italy too!"

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This. Only don't appear it. BE it.

DHV is highly misunderstood. A DHV STORY is a story that conveys you're a high value person.

But what is more important is DHV TRAITS. These character traits that high value people have.

When you walk up to a girl, she doesn't know whether you are high value or not. So she immediately assumes SOMETHING. You could tell her you are a high value person, let's say you act and have starred in movies. But can she really trust you? You could be lying.

This is where high value TRAITS come in. These are traits, as said before, that high value people have. It doesn't come with actually having high SOCIAL value, but rather having utter confidence in yourself and what you do. Having High value traits.

What are some high value traits?

Not taking her shit
Having fun no matter what
Being socially aware/knowledgeable
Being smart
Being forward and unapologetic (high value people go for what they want without apologies)
Saying and doing what you want to (high value people don't care about others' reactions, they are self amusing)
Being direct
Making your intentions clear and expressing them without apologizing
You are sexual and comfortable with your sexuality and sexuality in general because you know it is natural
Knowing you are attractive
Knowing you are influential


See you are not really displaying any STORY with these, they are just a part of you. A girl can't really trust your words all the time, but your attitude will override your words and will blow her away as long as you are congruent with your traits.

These traits all display higher value. You can display high value without stories, without social circles or groups in the club. You can literally say "I am here alone to meet new people" and as long as you don't apologize for it or are shaken by the shit she may give you, because it's normal, then she will sense you are actually confident and go for what you want, a high value trait.

Thanks for all the feedback guys i will incorparate this into my game and post reports of how it goes and what material i used. Just one quick question before i go im texting a girl whos number i closed but shes abit of a headf**k and is giving me mixed signals (being blunt, one ssecond acting interested and the next acting a bitch) how do you think i could disarm her and make her want to chase me/
thanks again guys
J