Hey i have been seeing this girl, she is my co-worker , she has recently been dumped by her exboyfriend so i took the chance right away to hit on her... i have closed her a few times now. we have not made this an exclusive relationship..
But the thing is that i feel jealous when someone else is hitting on her..
at work noone knows about us, and i keep it that way i don't do or say anything when another co-worker is flirting with her.. i just act as i would normally do but deep inside i have those feelings of jealousy..
i do flirt with other chicks to keep away from having this one-itis..
but can't seem to make that go away.

what do you guys suggest?
i don't want to go out with her exclusively, but at the same time i don't want her to be with other dudes, specially cause i see her so often..

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Space.volt

So you don't want to be exclusive, and you flirt with other girls, but you don't want guys hitting on her... Dafuq?

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

was thinking the same thing LOL

just a tad childish man i had the same thing with a chick who didnt want to be in a relationship but didnt want me to hook up with anyone else and if i did she got super pissed so i ignored her for about a week till she sent me a msg saying im home alone if you want to come over.

if your getting jealous you obviously have feelings for her and your in to minds about being with the one girl you like or randoms you get out and about i say sort it out before you miss out

cheers jake

i know, i know it is really stupid.. thats the first thing i said too. i was like what the fuck is going on why am i acting like this... you guys are right, its a childish thing to do..

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Space.volt