Hi folks name is Sam I've been an on and off (Mostly off) Gamer for the last few years. I'm 45 live in Edmonton and I work multiple day jobs usually security. These pay the bills the career though is film and television which does add to the appeal alot. Mostly though I'm here because now is the time to be here. In the past I was usually too busy to take this seriously. I'm not a club guy even though I live just off the major club street in Edmonton. Just going through this I've been seeing how I've been under using my resources and my location. For instance I'm less than a mile away from the University here and I go through that area all the time because of transit but have never "Just taken a stroll" through the area. I have gotten better especially in the last year or so but I've decided recently given what just happened in a recent incident with women that this is an area that I need to consciously start working on. Looking forward to feedback I'm also very much expecting to stick my foot in my mouth. So yeah I'm almost exclusively a day gamer

I very recently did a inventory of my game and I've come to some conclusions about where I'm strong and where I'm weak. Strong in the opening, and carrying on a 'friend' conversation, decent at spotting an IOI and of course my career choice with credits to back it up helps a lot. Weak in getting the close phone numbers I miss the timing 80-90% of the time. I also have a creep factor issue that plays into my game from an ongoing but resolvable issue. Also I get distracted and forget to follow through on things. As I go along there may be other stuff but for now that's it. Looking forward to interacting with you guys here

Yes this me replying to myself. First big hurdle isn't in meeting them it's in closing for the phone # then moving on, I've really struggled with this the better I get at this then the better my chances are of avoiding the creep factor. So first question is when is it a good time to score the phone #

An even better question would be where should I be posting up this question.

hey man,
a question to ask is, why are you asking for the number? she should be the one giving it to you - you're confidence should be so high that she's the one who wants your number, and its her loss if she doesn't get it.

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Never looked at it that way before, which is why I'm here different perspectives are what I need right now