Alright guys, I've been browsing this forum for a few weeks on and off, finally decided to create an account.

This girl is driving me crazy. I just can't stop thinking about her, visiting her myspace page, dream about her, and all that other stuff when you like a girl like crazy.

I've been out with this girl a few times, first date ended up with a kiss, 2nd date ended up with a full make-out session with some pussy tickling. It would've gone further but I'm a retard who did not have a condom, and she didn't want to have unprotected sex (I didn't as well).

The next day I got a message on myspace saying that she had a really fun time last night and we should hang out again. She also called me her 'best friend forever'.

This is where it starts to get fucked up.

Before she goes on vacation to Hawaii for the winter break, I ask her if we can meet so I can say goodbye, she says okay. But then she gets out of it the day of saying she can't because she is busy. So I text her wishing her a good flight, she says the whole girly thing like "omg you're so cute, thank you!!".

I send out another text and just get no reply. This happens sooo often, we get so close at points, then she just breaks it off by avoiding contact.

Any ideas what I should do next?

it's possible that she really was busy packing and such. It seems that right around xmas, my phone traffic slows down where women are concerned. Maybe she didn't respond to your text b/c she's out of service area, or b/c she saw it but was busy and forgot. I would give it a day or 2 and let her get settled in, in Hawaii and see if she corresponds with you. I would also start looking at other women. It's never healthy before you've fucked a girl, to get your mind set on just one girl. Use her as a fall back option. Go out and meet other girls and if you get rejected, so what. You have this one to fall back on. Soon you have 4 or 5 girls you feel that way about and you won't have to come here asking these types of questions.

Thanks for the awesome reply, definitely will take that into consideration.

The thing is, with the replying, it's kind of reoccurring... like we'll be having a conversation and all of a sudden she just stops texting and doesn't reply at all (not even the next day).

But yeah, I shouldn't be stuck on just one girl as you said.

well that is how a lot of women behave with texting. If she stops and doesn't do it the next day either, chances are she's not 100% interested in you like you are with her. Sometimes they are still interested when they stop the texting b/c they have to do something else, and must stop. If a day goes by though, she's not 100% interested or her mind is totally on something else. That's why I say, go out and meet other women. Eventually when you start seeming harder to get, it can be an attractive quality.

One thing that will help you is next time you are in the situation to fuck a girl, do it and make it good which gives a better chance they'll come back. I've had girls I didn't fuck b/c of the reason you didn't, I regretted b/c I never saw again. The texting was fewer and further between afterwards until it was non-existent. If you didn't fuck her when you had the chance then it wasn't meant to be anyway. That's how I have viewed most of mine