I think i posted my other one on wrong section so im posting it here instead.

From a scale of 1-10 I asked several friends and been told im a 8 or 9 in being hairy. My chest is full of fucking hair (i dont mind the chest) but my back is also just as hairy. This is making my self esteem drop through the ground.

I have kiss closed several beautiful girls (which i never thought was possible) and made out heavily with several of them. What scares me the most is asking them to come home with me (I had the opportunity to have sex about 4 times now in the past 3 weeks) but I never used it up cause im scared the girls will be grossed out because of my chest and back hair.

I really dont know what to do, even if i wax/cut it, it is still thick so if you stroke your hand you will feel that im hairy, and I read dussins of forum posts about back hair and girls and women say they hate it, and can be so grossed out by it that they actually will say they dont want to have sex in the bedroom even when aroused.

I can take a pic of my back if needed to show you how hairy I am...

What the fuck should i do :'( ?????

how is that possible? just wax it or shave it all off (the back hair). It might be a bitch to keep up, but some people have it way worse. Enjoy banging those girls!

Not a big deal, really. Just shave your dick and balls and girls won't have a problem blowing you.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

It's called personal grooming. Get a pair of electric clippers. Trim, but don't shave your chest. Nobody wants a guy will really long chest hair shooting up out of the top of his shirt. DO shave your neck so none of that back hair sticks up out of your collar.

I'd recommend trying some hair removal creme products on your back. That way you can apply it yourself so you won't need an assistant, unless you have a buddy or family member that is cool with helping you de-beastify yourself.

The back hair is not that big of deal since the girl will only notice it once she is already in bed with you. This idea of convincing yourself that women won't like since you have back hair, therefore you aren't able to get with women, is merely just a self-limiting belief. Game women like you have no back hair and they won't know otherwise.

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