| Hey guys,
Not sure how New Years affects PUA's who may have hit some speed bumps during the holidays, but in my case literally every single friend I have either has family coming down to visit and do a private New Years family kinda thing, or going out of town to see family (common in DC) Translation: No plans.
So here's the deal; I just started a new job.
This hot girl at work (I don't work directly with her in any way, I just see her in the kitchen, she introduced herself to me a week or so ago.
She's flirted w/ me in the kitchen a few times now, we IM every now and then just to shoot the shit. I IM'd her all nonchalantly today asking if we've had "the New Year's talk" yet she laughed and said she's going to Carnegie Library with some girlfriends, "you?"
I told her what was up and said I figured I'd just run it by her and see if she had any suggestions I might not've heard yet. I told her I'd never heard of Carnegie Library.
She sent me the link for the event; I told her it was something I could think about doing, and if I did that'd mean I'd actually know another soul in DC who was partying for NYE the traditional way.
I said I didn't want to be overbearing or anything, and said if I did go, would she introduce me around? She said "Sure, okay. I'm heading out now, ttyl!" And signed off a few minutes later.
I only replied w ttyl too, no more followup grilling today. You think she was just being nice and didnt really mean for me to take it as an invite to meet her friends, etc.?
Should I go for it? Be like, "Hey, I know some people are a little weird about making friends at work, but I figured it couldn't hurt to talk to use basically every avenue to make new friends" and tell her if it seems a bit much, that's totally cool.
Hell, the last girl I dated from work I didn't directly work with either and only made small talk in the kitchen and on our ways to our cars.
Of course at the orientation they showed us this ridiculous sexual harassment video where this guy just wouldn't take the hint. He was mak
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