Ugh man life is like a roller-coaster. Things seem to be looking up and then rapidly out of nowhere things drop down. I started going to these raves after I broke up with my gf, since I cant go to bars (only 20). Met a lot of cool people and such, but now they have closed down and most of the people are "changing for the better". I met this one chick that was really cool even went back to her place, made out with her, and slept in her bed. Thought we were gonna have bigger connection. I screwed up cuz I said I wasn't trying to do anything with her and when we were in bed I made 2-3 moves and she kept saying no. Ends up that I'm not her type, she said I seem like a tool because I kept trying and said she likes country guys... I need some help and motivation I know I can't keep trying, but at the same time people say that you should forget about it and it eventually will come to you....I'm feeling in the dumps right now....

A girl once told me she only liked country guys. But guess what? I ended up dating her for 2 months and had some pretty awesome sex with her. She turned out to be a little fucked up, but that's besides the point. You could have negged her in return and told her you only date city girls. And calling you a tool? Sure as hell hope you had some shit to throw back in her face.

But anyway, you said it yourself -- move on br'a.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I wish I didn't always stress like that. I went to the gym and feel 20x better. At the same time I feel like I got my goals in check and I just need to stop worrying about girls AS MUCH. I kinda knew I fucked up and should of kept my cool, but something in me said keep trying. O well what can I do except learn and move on.