I dunno if this is just me, but girls that I have (sex/finger/she gives oral) the same day I meet them always turn out to be COMPLETE SLUTS/low self esteem/something wrong with them and cannot to be trusted. I've been thinking that if a girl doesn't want to have sex with you right away and you keep testing her by escalating then do you think you can figure out if she's a keeper or not if she keeps turning u down from escalating into the above ^? The reason I say this is because in the back of my mind I always think that someone else has hit it quicker than me and that she is turning me down because I'm not her "type", but we all know that girls don't know what they really want. Is it possible that she really does like me and wants to savor the moment without rushing in too quickly? Also how quickly should things escalate? By the third meet up should you be banging her and it be acceptable? I never have a problem escalating and making a girl feel comfortable usually leading to heavy making out + touching/sucking on her nipples the first time I meet them. Some girls lately when I first meet them have been giving me the no at the other things ^ and when I asked if they thought I was a player they said yes.....

Did you look into LMR? You should be leading the whole time. And also every girl is different in how fast you guys will have sex, but a good rule of thumb is if you're not fucking within a week then move on. There are exceptions of course, but that is the hard and fast way.

Yah I know LMR. I tried escalating slowly and then reinitiating and even acting like it wasn't a big deal or I didn't know what I was doing. I have no problem with escalation. I feel its some girls that don't want to do other things which is completely understandable, rather than the sluts. To me, its sort of like a test to see if you can withstand. Doesn't it show you have a stronger character and that you don't give in like every other guy? Kinda sets you apart, making you harder to get, equaling even more attraction. The reason why I say this is because I just got out of a bad relationship and the girl was a cheater and when I met her, she cheated on her bf with me and gave me head. Definitely a sign of someone that isn't a keeper, but I was oblivious...

From my own personal experience, there is a strong negative correlation between the number of guys a girl has slept with, and how relationship-worthy she is. There's also a strong positive correlation between the length of the longest relationship a girl's been in, and how relationship-worthy she is.

In other fucking words, find a girl who hasn't had too many partners (a little hard/sensitive to find out), and who's had lengthy relationships (easier to find out).

Personally, I lose respect/interest for girls that I have an easy time getting naked. I don't even bother penetrating them, honestly.

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Yah that one is kinda hard to find out. I heard you multiply the number of guys a girl slept with by 3. I think im just going to stop being a man whore just because its for the taking and I can get it. The thing is how long do you wait till u should expect to get it in. By the third date?