To many guys in here are hung up on their ex's. Yeah it sucks it's over but realize that there is so much more to life than one girl. If she can't see what an awesome guy you are then its her loss!

Don't wait around for her! If she looses you to another woman then its her loss and your gain. Go meet other women, follow your passions, enjoy life! stop feeling sorry for your self and decide to be happy! decide to better your life!

Right after my break up (4 years and we lived together) I was devastated! I knew I didn't need her in my life to be happy but I wanted her in my life because she was my best friend, but as the days rolled by I realized it was for the best. Why would you want to be with someone who is unsure? someone who doesn't value you as a person? Learn from your mistake, fix the problems so they don't happen in your next relationship, better your self, and move on.

Since my break up I have done a lot of reading! done a lot of soul searching! really thought about what I want out of life, what makes me happy, made some serious changes in my life! I'm focusing on work, planning on going back to school, started volunteering, Going out and dating again...life is exciting! I am grateful for the lessons I learned in my last relationship because in my next relationship I won't make the same mistakes.

Here are some great videos that might help you out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK3T76wJ32Q

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlYU7YsRsmc

I'd like to add something on the "best friend" bit.

If you and your girlfriend split ways, you weren't best friends. Even if you two are still together, she is probably not your best friend. You set yourself up for disappointment if you give that label to somebody because it's convenient and if the relationship is founded on sex.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

To me it doesn't matter...she was my best friend regardless of what someone might think. I have no ego to protect, we had a lot in common, a true chemistry and connection, and I wouldn't have been with her other wise. We are done now, there will always be disappointment when a relationship ends but with every struggle comes growth and learning as long as your are willing to accept it and be open to learning and bettering your self.

The cool thing is that there are other women out there, its exciting. The key in like is to find a Women who can not only be your best friend but who appreciate the values you hold. Someone who has the same values and is working toward the same goals in life.

Being friends with an ex is fine-- if you can handle it well. No dates to catch up with the old times thing. Not in a constant communication either.

There's a lot of girls out there, you can have new girlfriends. They will come and go.

Get the most out of the relationship when you're still together.

Have fun!

keep busy fellas

Having girlfriend or boyfriend is one of good thing in life. But when it comes to keep them is hard work to do.

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