I met this girl when i met with some friends at a local pub,
she's a friend of one of my friends
she said she just got her SPAM so i said you must do a party then.
at the time i thought she was in a relationship
but after a few days i found out she broke up her boyfriend a month ago,
so i added her on facebook and started talking
got to a point where i said "so what's up with that party?"
and she replied "i've waited for you to organize me one""
i answered "i'm not planning it all alone, leave me your number and we'll meet up to plan it"
then it took her a whole day to get back to me,
and she eventually replied "but it's a surprise party, you can get the number from your friends,
those of you are inviting to the party".

i'm not sure what to do from here, i think she avoided it in an elegant way.
(but not that elegant - how could it be a surprise party if we already talked about it)
what do you suggest?

ok man that was a good advice,
she then immediately gave me her number, but now the situation is this:
i talked to her, i think the conversation was good, i teased her a bit, didn't suggest her to meet yet
2 days later there were some texts exchanged, also teased her and got a compliment
a day after i called her at the evening, my intention was setting a meeting with her,
but she didn't answer. this was 2 days ago, and i haven't heard from her since.
now i'm thinking what i should do.
she's seems to me as a shy girl so i think there's a possibility i exaggerated a bit with the teasing,
but i'm not sure as things went pretty good.

talked to her again today, conversation was good imo,
i suggested meeting, she said yes, but right after i suggested tomorrow
she flanked and told me she can't (didn't tell me why). that was a little bit confusing.
I immediately said that the next 2 days after, i won't be available.
so we kind of agreed to be in touch next week.
i'm hoping i would be able to get her to meet, before i lose momentum.