| I have firmly believed in "not eating off your own pier" or "s**ting where you eat" but I am very interested n this new girl, she's been there since the summer, I've opened her up and talked to her several times. Now, I got her hanging out with a lot of co-workers together. This is where it's starting to go south, she told me "this convo is making me tired" and "it's annoying that you ask the same question twice". Can I recover from this? We went out, I ended up talking to several people at the bar who happened to be females, very attractive. My female friend came and got me, since the girl I'm interested in was asking where I was. After we went to our place with friends. We played her favorite card game, I lost terribly and don't handle losing very well because she was so good, this was a group of us playing, I was AFC. She told me, I should practice more with my friend (IOD), and I said we should play sometime again, she said okay I don't know when. I've received multiple IOD (looking away, telling me the convo is making her tired, mentioning she likes really tall guys, and little interest in us hanging out). My co-worker (2 females) think I should stop the small talk and ask her out to dinner. I don't see the IOIs but a lot of IODs, I generally don't feel she's into me. Thoughts? Next move, can I recover?
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