Have a question about how to make woman want you without making it obvious you want her- how should somebody act.

I know a couple of guys[~21years old/ university] who are simply just called by girls, if they have some time in the evening- and so on..

What is the secret behind it?

Im being curious.

No one of this guys is basicly caring about that, but that shouldnt be the single factor.

One reason. Attraction. The girls are attracted to those guys for one reason or another. Granted, it's usually looks, but sometimes it's their lifestyle they are attracted to. If the guy has a lot of social value, money, friends, etc., then girls will be drawn to him even if he is not very good looking.

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Why would you want to give her the impression you don't want her? You want to make it clear to a women what your intentions are without coming off as needy. I don't mince my words about what I want from a woman, I just expect they want the same and if they don't then its no sweat off my back....their loss. If you have other options then you have no need to be needy. If I want to date a girl I let her know, if she ever said no I would say "OK" and I would stop wasting my time with her.

A perfect example is last night. A girl I met once, who I have been texting back and forth with asked if I was going to come hang out (she lives 2 hours away), I told her "listen I'm not looking for anything serious, I just want to have fun, If I come all the way is it going to be worth it and will I have a bed to sleep in?" she then told me of course I could stay there, she went on to tell me she doesn't do one night stands though....I told her "well I don't typically either so its a good thing we have already met." She then went on to tell me how amazing she is in bed ect ect....had she said no way, I would have said, that's to bad, guess we are on a different page, have a nice life. Its not me being a dick, its me being honest, most guys want the same thing they just don't come out and say it.

Just lead my friend, and most of the time she will follow.

p.s

One of the few times when its really necessary to act as if you don't want the girl is if she has a bf...then its more of a friendly fun approach.

Out side of that I'm pretty aggressive. By this I mean I make it clear with body language, tonality, and hints that I am interested in the girl.

What if you have a case, where you have a number, and you already talked a little, established some connection ect., and everything you can do after is over a phone- what do you (dark one or anybody else) do, if you cant use body language?

Im using phone (sms or calls) just for arranging where and when we meet, but im sure you guys know better

It depends how much attraction you built when you were with her? If her attraction was high then it should be easy. Something I often do is hit toward it, use back handed comments and if she responds well then chances are she is interested in you sexually.

You also have to make her feel comfortable opening up! women are afraid you will view them as slutty and if you can assure them you don't think that then they will fully open up.

I guess everyone has their own style but I am pretty up front with women, If I know the girl is into me (giving me IOI's) and she flirty I make things sexual almost immediately as to not fall into the friend zone. You need to have complete confidence to do this though or it will come off as creepy, when I tell a girl something I am so sure of it I convince my self even haha

I met a girl the other night who I openly told I would be fucking her...she was flirting with me like crazy! opening up, so I went for it, she told me she has never had an orgasm and most guys are crappy in bed, and so I pushed farther and told her I'l take care of her, and that when I'm done with her she won't be thinking about other men. Now this could come off as very very creepy if you don't use proper tonality, or say it at the wrong time so be careful! but don't be afraid to tell a women what you want, don't be afraid to get a little dirty...you need to lead! a women will never lead when it comes to sex.

would you be so kind to make an example of this? Language barrier makes it difficult to correctly imagine it (or understand it).

1. Look straight into her eyes with sexual intent; not the tiger look in a martial arts tournament but with a friendly, naughty look. You can do this by thinking very sexual thoughts. Don't look at her breasts or her ass; just the pupils of her eyes.

2. Close the physical distance. If she moves away to maintain the distance, you have not attracted her yet. If she looks at your mouth or crotch area, then you're doing good. If she doesn't move away or comes closer to touch you (often very briefly) on some parts of your body to feel the hardness of your biceps, abs, or shoulder muscles for instance, then you're doing great.

3. If you make her horny enough with items #1 and #2, she will ask you if she can sleep over or if it's okay if she goes with you. Act like you're not that interested but agree later on when she pressures you. She wants the thrill of the chase. Let her have her thrill. If you look too eager, she'll eject or say, "joke", or do a push-pull on you. When that happens, eject first. She'll chase. Negotiate from a position of power; never from a position of weakness.

4. Don't talk too much. Talking too much makes her horny bones subside.

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hellhound- great sum up. In person isnt really a problem for me, but this: Do you also have any hints for sms-ing?