Hey PUA"s,

I just bumped into this article, and it has several interesting points.

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and- ... -AlphaMale

Those who want to understand what subconscious triggers girls have should read this article, maybe even 2 or 3 times!

If the AM is slowly diminishing in numbers, then our task is only going to get easier (especially for the younger PUA's).

Enjoy!

Mixar

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Translation - Thought without action is pointless!

A lot of stuff in this article makes sense, such as the neglect of transition from boy to man, the economic decline of male dominated sectors, etc.

However this is not in the advantage of any guy. Because women will continue to mind manipulate men, blackmail them into submissive behaviour in order to have sex, and this will go to the point that men wear pink underwear down their ass like some gangstah rapper, put on facial creams and shave their chests. You can't really be yourself as a man anymore and still get a girl in this feminist culture. We have to fight back and clean up. Are you with me?

I totally agree with those comments. Although we should be mindful that we or maybe just me, expect our women to groom themselves to a certain degree. It's only fair that men reciprocate. Now I have a shaved chest, but that's more about showing off my tattoos than grooming to make a woman happy. I have shaved my legs, but again, that was for cycling in my Triathlon days.

What I believe is that if we know the alpha male is dwindling in numbers, that means there are less naturals out there for us to compete against. Plus when we use the rules and triggers of natural selection, women will be more receptive than if they are exposed to more natural alpha males.

It's logic by deduction I guess!

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wisdom is knowing what to do next virtue is doing it
Translation - Thought without action is pointless!

Man will never be what he used to be. Part of man's dominance came from a view that females were inferior. Females viewed themselves as inferior and felt inferior, so females clung to men. A female needed a man because they lacked the confidence to do things on their own. Its not testosterone that makes a man, its self-confidence and women have self-confidence now.

The irony of the 3 replies above, is your demonstrating the characteristics of what the article is pointing out the lack of in men it's later stages.
There you go, apparently that's what you need to be to get the economic girl of your dreams. But It's all subjective isn't it, if you want a girl that wants an old school kind of guy, one that walks past the men's care section in the shop, then you'll find one just by meeting more women - it's (once again) a numbers game.

What you have to remember is, this article and the people interviewed are all successful, ambitious, career driven women, so the article is already bias to the kind of modern man they need or want. And don't forget the demographic of Women's Health, are going to be similar minded women.

Also this article isn't anything new that hasn't been mentioned on this forum before.

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Whether or not this is bad or good for men depends on the type of man you are. From what I see.. this pattern will continue getting worse until you have a situation where the very few TOP alpha males will basically share the majority of attractive women, while the majority of average males live lonely sexless lives OR shack up with ugly or fat women. Lot of men will simply leave the market and lose all interest in women. Its already happening in Japan. See here: http://articles.cnn.com/2009-06-05/worl ... s=PM:WORLD

I say, this is a time to become the best man you can be because competition has never been lower. Today, you just have to be marginally successful for women to think you're a catch.

I've read a lot about this topic. The future will be interesting.

Here is another interesting article on this: http://romancecheater.com/the-era-of-su ... ern-women/

This one is long but VERY interesting: http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/ ... ubble.html

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First article says women are getting more honest. This is obviously bullshit, because in order to rise through the ranks in their career lives, they are more 'behind the elbows' than ever. They lie and pretend to be different than they really are, because in the past they derrived their status from birth in a social rank or class. Today all their status, next to their physical attractiveness comes from manipulating their way up the career ladder.

Also in the past, the idea was to find a soul mate or partner for life. This meant that love and relationships were experienced as more true to the soul, meaning that people were more genuine with one another, and less prone to hide behind social masks, as their life partner was the one they truly trusted. Today these life partners are also interchangeable, and this stimulates women into not showing their true colours.

Last article is great!!! Seems like it could have been written by Brett Stevens or someone like that of alternative right.

Women are finally getting closer to equality in society and in the workplace. Good on them, hopefully this trend continues.

Awesome.

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Yüz Germe

Confirmation of what I experience

For being such a skinny wimp when I was young to alpha male as some would say I am now has been quite a transition, yes women yearn for alpha guys, I see it almost every day


I think I am in a position to give some advice, I'm thinking im a senior citizen here, have been there and back, possibly here to brag and build up my self esteem but more so to help out, my paternalistic instinct

My advice - be an alpha by doing some alpha things, you don't need to be a superstar or even a star at any of them, effort counts a lot. It doesn't take tons of money either. But even if it kills you, challenge yourself with some physically active endeavors. I just started climbing mountains, it doesn't cost hardly anything and women think it's cool, out of pocket costs are transportation to the mountain and some appropriate attire, read up on it to be safe, be prepared boys scouts. It doesn't matter the size, just get started, get to a few tops, take some pics, it will get you in better shape. But be safe, do your research, maybe join a club and climb with others.

Ride a bike. Bikes are cheap. Almost every gal I know rides. You don't have to bike across the country or ride in races. Just go from here to there, save caveats as climbing, don't get run over.

Go crew. If you are near the ocean or a lake, find a sailing club, sign up to crew. Get involved with racing lots of testosterone in the air on race days. Check out one of my fav sites, sailinganarchy dot com. You don't have to own a boat, sail around the world or get terribly fancy, just get on a race crew, literally learn the ropes, women love a sailor

Geez, I could go on and on. Just get off your butts and get after it. Uncut, as in the movies

I guess doing something is better than doing nothing.

However I'm a martial artist who trained this stuff ever since I turned 13 at a very high level, am a public speaker and writer.

It doesn't mean that girls are necessarily interested in you even if you are brilliant or sportive. Or both. Even if your physical features are not against you. It all comes down to sifting through loads of women until you find ones who show interest. But if they had met another guy instead of you they would also be interested. There is no magic move that can suddenly bring a girl's head to boil. Yet this is what PUA literature teaches to get into the minds of desperate guys looking for love.

Getting into all that is great if you enjoy it. But if you don't... and you're just doing it to get girls.. then its not worth it. Girls will sense your lack of passion/interest and if you don't meet girls doing it, you'll be very annoyed because you wasted your time and money.

You should definitely stay in shape and active in some way, but choose an activity you enjoy and are willing to do even if you DON'T meet/attract any girls with it.

I think the best advice is to do SOMETHING. Get out of the house. Get off your butt. Turn off the TV and video games. If you get OUT and do things.. you will meet girls. Just make sure you do things you enjoy so you can meet girls who enjoy what you do. Doesn't matter if its partying, camping, biking, hiking, traveling, going to museums, working with kids, volunteer work, going to sporting events, whatever...

Just do SOMETHING.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

Yes, but . . . I dated so many girls through video games. And they were of surprisingly high quality. Slim, beautiful, sexually adventurous. So, video games is a good route to girls.

Also, a lot of men are raised by women. That's part of the problem.

When a man is a momma's boy he looks for sympathy, he looks for help, he looks for a way out of things, he doesn't face things because someone else did it for him, in someone ways he probably thinks like a woman and has her insecurities, he thinks its okay to do things half-way. And the funny thing is this women raise their sons this way, but if their man behaves this way they look down on him.