So I've had this one chick in my head for months and months. We went out on a date, it went well. Took her back to my place and we messed around. She saw, however, the collage that my ex made for me hanging on my wall. When she left she thought I was still hung over my ex and never told me how she felt about this. In other words, there was a miss communication. Which is probably why she played so hard to get after I had already "gotten her." Apparently she really liked me though which I heard from someone that's good friends with one of her friends. But yeah...

Anyways, I've been seeing other girls and whatnot, but this girl still is in my head even though I don't know her that that well. I just feel as though the only remedy is to try and get to go out with me. I'm legitimately curious about this girl in seeing why I'm so obsessed with her. I want to just call her and tell her that I want to take her out to see why it is that I'm always thinking about her. That it'll be a potential remedy for me. I already asked her on a second date before, about two months back -she said maybe, then called me back later and said no because she's seeing someone and doesn't think it would be right. And then I tried a third time. This would be the fourth time.

I'm not desperate. I'm getting better at the game. But for some reason, I just haven't been able to get her out of my head. Before I do anything and perhaps make a fool out of myself, what do you guys think about this?

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Sorry to break it to you man, the saying third time is the charm? well fourth time is a stalker :/
Im just playing, but seriously you need to leave her be for now. If she said no twice then the fourth time is just going to make you look bad. Go out on dates and make it known your going out on dates, but i would stay away from her for a while. At least until you stop thinking about her.
I had a problem like this, it took me MONTHS to step back and realize the only reason i wanted her so bad was because i couldnt have her. What is the main saying of "The Game" my friend Girls will do anything to get what they cant have?" well the same works in the reverse.

Just take a break go have fun and see if she comes back, if not then its not meant to be.

Hope this helps- Sam

If you wouldn't have tried so many times I would have said go for it. But she's not interested anymore my friend. Leave her be and delete her number.

first off why the hell didnt you get yoru room ready/place ready for this girl? that shit should of been hidden...

second if you want to ask a fourth time go ahead man....all you can do is ask but if she says no id leave it at that and move on...


your probably hung up on her because you didnt hit it....if you did i dont think you be so wanting to hang with her...if you know what i mean lol

your probably just curious how good she is

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Eat lots of fast food, get really REALLY fat. Grow a 70's porn mustache, get some big Hawaiian shirts, move to a new place, then ask her AGAIN! She will have no idea your the guy that creep-ed her out with his shrine to his EX! It will be like starting over.


Seems like a lot of effort though when there are so many others to choose from without hardly trying.

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I gave a girl five chances before, so I can't really knock it. There's something to be said for persistence. It didn't work out for me, but I knew going into it that I might just be wasting my time. I just wanted to prove to myself that I could not give up and that the girl really was just a time-wasting cock tease, which she was. But it wasn't out of desperation that I was doing it. I knew what my objective was and what I was willing to do to accomplish it. And I set my limit at five and left it there. Then I moved on.

I can tell that you are smitten by this girl and you are probably lonely and fixated on being with her and wishful thinking is driving you to continue on with this with no real exit strategy in mind. That's the exact reason why they say not to put too much effort into any girl and to always game multiple girls. Because when you don't, this is the EXACT thing that happens.

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