Okay I've been dating a girl for a year, prior to her I was married and ended up getting a divorce because the relationship was just terrible in it's own special ways lol. I met this girl within a month of the divorce being brought up and fell for her. I have a few concerns/issues though and please don't tell me that I need to "leave her and show her that I won't take it" because I do care for her and know her intentions weren't malicious.

She lied to me during the first 6 months of our relationship about some things she did with a past male friend (she was talking to him during our relationship so we decided to discuss our past relationships and partners and I asked if they ever did anything) she stated that they kissed but nothing more because he has been in a long relationship and she felt terrible. A night came where me, her and her other best friend (male) talked and she decided to tell the guys girlfriend about the incident because she felt like he was just using her and she felt like he was doing it with other girls too. After the bomb was dropped, the real story came out and I (as well as her other male friend) found out she had gotten more sexual with him then she had told me. This bothered me only based on the fact that she lied to me for no reason. She no longer has contact with him but there was other small lies (she texted a male teacher and lied to me about it saying it was a friend from back in high school because she feared I'd think she was insane for talking to a teacher which I'm unsure if it was all innocent talk which she states it was but she immediately stopped talking to him now because it made me mad).

The problem lies within the fact that the male friend that she is still best friends with to this day goes to school and works with her, they text/call each other somewhat regularly but I found out that he had a massive thing for my girlfriend back in high school when the whole thing with there other friend was happening. He and the other guy were best friends and they all three used to hang out and Jake (The guy that ended up hooking up with my gf in the past, prior to us) went behind Matts back and did stuff with my now-gf. The entire thing caused a cluster of drama that I rather just leave in the past but I can't seem to shake this feeling of know he still has a thing for her.

He told me one night that she was the only girl he had super strong feelings for and couldn't shake them. How would you advise I go about this shit? I trust her to not do anything because she told him in the past that she doesn't see anything ever between them more then friends. Some small part of me worries that she is an attention seeker and likes knowing he wants her, but I don't ever see her crossing any lines with him or leading him on?

My Epic advice: bang this chick as many times you can because some other guy wont be able to bang her at the same moment.

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This chick you write about is flaky, and strikes me as fussy and frigid too. Look's like she can be any man's game.

So, either you are cool with that and behave like some sort of "open relationship guy," or you are not. The best thing you can do is lay her as many times as possible while you still can. This is because [1] take the best out of things while you have them, [2] if you lay on top of a girl some other man can't be laying on top of her at the same time (in your situation at least), and [3] if you satisfy her sexually, and often, chances are she won't feel inclined to open up sexual lines with that friend you described.

Other than that, this girl's inner life is obviously fickle so you may lose her any time and so you keep out looking for other girlfriends to replace her once she runs off for good, if you are sane.