Hey guys. I've already bypassed the beginning steps with this woman. I can tell she's already wanting me, interested in me, willing to take me to bed, etc. I'm friends with her on facebook. So, I saw that she was commenting my pictures, etc. I was like "So you're stalking my pictures now? Will I have to worry about you stalking me by standing outside of my windows?" She was like "maybeeee". I was talking to her later on the next day and I was like "When we go out are you going to hold onto my hand?" She would reply with "maybbbeeee" again. I know she is being playful and whatnot. I just don't really know how to counter this "maybbee" stuff. I'm good at attracting women. It's just keeping them around that is the hardest part for me.

I don't want her to think I am just about sex or whatever. Even though I probably won't have a problem getting it from her if I wanted to get her into bed. I just don't wanna be a jerk to her. I'm a guy and this woman is absolutely stunning. I can't believe I even actually attracted her, but I did.

But I'm screwing up with her. I think I'm coming off as you would say "trying too hard." I'm being honest with her, being real, flirting, etc. The problem is I'm starting to becoming invested, emotionally attached to her. I ain't saying anything like "I love you", "I need you", etc. Although I think I'm doing the "I need you" but without actually saying it. Which is one of the mistakes I am making.

The other thing I'm having is getting her to invest emotionally and chase after me. Like I can't get her to text me, call me, etc. It seems I'm the one doing it, in which is really bad, because I'm showing that I'm letting her have control.

I guess the main reason for my mistakes is I do actually want this woman. Even though there are other women in the picture. I am picking her. I just don't want to fuck any chance up with her like I've done with her.

Like I said, I have no problems getting women to start the ball. I'm just dropping the ball.

Any advice on fixing this problem before I just basically mess it all up and lose the chance without coming off as a prick?

Hey man,

I think if you've showed too much interest, you end up looking too needy. This isn't a good place to be.

To turn things around, you need to look like you're busy doing other stuff, give her a mild freeze out even.
Go out with friends, post it all over facebook so she see's you have a life. Maybe throw in a checkin or two with other chicks at places you go. Don't message her for a few days, then throw her a message. Get onto the text/fb game threads on this forum for ideas. Be bold with a neg so you come accross as alfa, and not needy.

When you chase like that, girls think you're too easy so you need to create a bit of a challenge for her.

Cheers

Mixar

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