Theres this girl i want to get with but theres this guy thats been trying to get with her also. I gamed this girl up when he was right next to her not knowing she was with him, but there just friends. he wants more but she likes me more than him and i think he knows that. But i was wondering how do you handle guys like this that befriend your friends to try and gain neutral ground with you. Like they think if im cool with his friend he wont talk to the girl im trying to talk to or at least thats how see it.

Can't speak for everyone else, but what works for me is to be respectful to them as a "friend" (if they are) when they are around, but either way be Alpha all the time with the target, whether he is there or not. So basically ignore whatever attempts he's making because "they aren't a threat".

I find girls will usually act neutral when that other guy is around and be social and chummy with both, but as soon as we are alone it's like he doesn't matter. On the other hand every once in a while I'm that other guy and don't realize always realize it at first so it's not fool proof. Generally for me its been about 80% success.

Also gotta remember, you can't get them ALL. I would imagine you could take the route of comically dogging them a lot in her presence but in my experience that can back fire too because some girls naturally go for the underdog - I've had less success with that approach.

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