So I'm eating a sandwhich my GF it's all good, she drops me off to work and she's like, "I think we should be friends because I don't know where this relationship is going?"

Now keep in mind we been together for about a year. the previous night we had like 4 hrs of ridiculous sex. Also keep in mind I'm 33 and she's 23, so she somewhat insecure and always things I'm hanging with "older" chicks and since I'm a reporter and get assignments every night I certainley have the "oppurtunity"

Anyway she hits me with this, and I basically go off on her, saying I'm tired of every few months you getting your "womens' intuition" that somethings not right or I'm doing something wrong...I yelled at her for like ten minutes calling her a child and whatnot

So after basically blasting her then dipping out the car, I comeback and tell her "look we gonna get through this" (Probably a bad move, but she looked like she was gonna commit vehicular homicide if I didn't leave on a decent note.)

She texts me this like 4 hrs later:"I feel miserable now. I wish I can take back everything i said earlier. I shouldn't threaten our relationship with my misguided fears"

So I don't text her back for like 5 hrs, and I'm like: "Covering a game right now, I'mm be real that shit wasn't cool today, I'll collect my thoughts and holla at you later"

Now i do care about the girl, and I did lie to her about something early in the relationship, but at this point it's some bullshit for her to come out of the blue with this break up shit..

Advice anyone on how to proceed further..Honestly she looked destroyed after I went off on her earlier, don't wanna hurt her, but I had to put it on her today...

Now, I can be a bit of a "nice guy" in relationships though I am improving vastly, so feel free to take this with a pinch of salt and bare in mind I am 23 and not nearly as well versed in life as you.

But my read on this is that she is probably really into you and doesn't feel secure in the relationship, perhaps she is doing a "pre-emptive break up" or some shit, because she thinks she could easily lose you and perhaps to test you. It's something an insecure person would do, and I should know, I am riddled with insecurities and emotional paranoia and have done the pre-emptive break up in the past...

Obviously I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship, but I would suggest showing her that you care for her and don't want to hurt her. There is always room for a little mushiness I think.

I am 23 and seeing an 18 year old, we have a lot of sex and early on did little else, because I am older and more excited to her than 18 year old boys who live with Mummy and Daddy, she started to get attached and was fretting that she was just a piece of meat for me to stick my dick inside. She distanced herself and got a bit cold and I thought she was ending things, but she just didn't have any real security in the relationship. I rectified this by being more caring and romantic towards her.

Thanks alot man, given the fact you are the only one who responded, you make the most sense...I think I'm gonna try and be a little more loving this xmas week.

Yep, what Rough said. This is one of the rare times when a man can be caring/loving/emotional.

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