so met the girl, made it passed the kissing stage and now we are heavy into groping with clothes on , she wont let me put my hand in her pants at all... to make me seem more random ive haven't txted her in a few days..she hasn't made any attempt to contact me at all in this time period..when i txt her at random on the 3rd day and she barely responds back.. the chats seem to be centered around her and attempts to bring it back to me, she doesn't respond or she changes the topic...so i want in her pants .. should i keep playing her game and if so how should i go about it... or do i say fuck it and move on.. she only rates about 6 we have hung out a total of 4 times 2 one on one 2 at the club with friends...advice would be helpful

Check the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. Before putting my hands down a girl's pants, I either rub her crotch with my leg or rub her thighs and get progressively get closer to her crotch which eventually turns into light rubbing. If she accepts that, I start rubbing her hip directly (not through her clothes), and progressively make my way down to her groin and onto her lips by which time I'm home free.

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