I went to a strip club last week and met this stripper who I had a great time with. This was some of the best game I've ran in a while - everything I said was smooth and confident and I let her come to me and work for my attention instead of being your typical beta submissive douchebag at a strip club. She was all over it and I felt her getting much more comfortable with me as time went on. Anyways, she gave me her real name and phone number and told me to call her. She said that she's got some stuff going on for next few weeks but she would like to see me outside of the club after that. I texted her a few days after the club and she said the same thing - she would like to see me outside the club sometime soon


What do you guys think? Is there anything of value here?


I hate to say this but I like her so much that I am thinking about going back into the club and seeing her for another hour or so (it would cost me like 200 bucks). Is that a bad idea? Will she just look at me as an SPAM machine? Somebody recommended I just go there to talk to her but her dances are so much fun, it's going to be hard to say no

Whatever you do, DO NOT i repeat DO NOT go back to the club to see her!!!!!

If you go back go with a bunch of friends and make it look like your there for a buddy's B-day or something not that you are there intentionally or she will group you in with the other douche bags at the club. Let her know that you want to hang out but dont sound needs (check out phone game in the fourum if you have q's) get her out one day or night, run game and your set.

Just make sure you are cautious with exotic dancers. Remember THEIR JOB IS TO MAKE MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM!!!!!

Isn't there like, some cardinal rule about dating strippers?

I.E. once you give them a dollar, you're a customer and nothing more. By giving you her real name and number, you probably feel special (like the guys before you that she's done it to) and thus more willing to drop the cash on her.

Want to know where you stand? Trying seeing her outside the club. Spend NO money on her. Let us know how that goes.

The next few WEEKS?!?

I'm pretty sure that's just a ploy. They give you the impression that you stand a chance with them, thus you'll keep plunking bills into their g-string. This tactic apparently works so well that you are even thinking about going back and doing it again!

All I'll say is that this stripper will not hook up with you so you might as well just save your money. All stripper/whores are the same and they just want guys' money so they can take it home and pay for their boyfriend's coke habit.

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Yeah, if you really want to bang this girl, your best bet is just offering cash during a private lap dance. Seriously, in the progression from "money grubbing slut" to "prostitute", stripper leads to call girl.

Best of luck!

Set your expectations very low. Yeah, you can hit her up and invite her out, but don't go into the club and spend money on her. Being super stereotypical here but if she agrees to go out, split the bill. The frame that all strippers have is a little sketchy, and the frame that men are pigs with a bunch of money is slightly magnified.

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like others have already suggested, WHERE she wants to hang with you is how you tell whether or not you have a chance. when she wants to hang out, invite her places and to do things other than being at the club. if she starts telling you to come in and see her and wont meetup with you outside of the club then you know you are just a mark.

really, its probably pretty close to 50/50 either way at this point whether shes 'for real' into you or not. either way, youll find out soon.

also, keep in mind that strippers are huge flakes. so if she makes plans she may blow them off a lot. also, theyll go weeks at a time without calling/texting/seeing you then show back up in your life out of nowhere. but if you know what you are doing and dont take them too seriously, they can be tons of fun. just dont lay out any money.

Call her and try and arrange a meet, just for the experience. Worth a try right? Just have no expectations.

time to fuck her