Hey guys. I met this girl a few months ago(this summer). In the begging I acted friendly towards her (I joined a new group of friends..this is how I met her)... Well I was teasing her, she game me serious IOI's. However, someday I built an immense rapport and she opened herself to me, she told me about how bad her life has become becouse of some external&internal factors...and I supported her emotionally, this thing got us close..and we went closer and closer, started to date and shit.. well, even though I was talking 2-3 times a day to her and dated kinda 2 times a week. I didn't open sexually to her ( even I donnow why). Well supposing that I'm in the friendzone yesterday I told'er that I can't go on this way becouse I started to like her and ...u know... Well she said smth like:"I cannot lie, I loke you too, you're a great guy (blah blah blah) without u things wouldn't be the same..and u're really important to me.. but I need some time to recover emotionally ( she broke up with her ex 2 weeks ago)...and maybe someday...when we went our ways I huged her and she said smth like: "We'll chat on messenger.." me: "I don't think so..."..and I left.. P.S: When we were dating I even kino-ed: longer touches..hands on her back and lower back, even hold hands for a bit longer, i even held here while we were sitting and all sort of kinos... So? what are my chances?

I need to add that I never acted needy. EVER. I was an alpha..but one who didn't open sexually...

Your chances are pretty spectacular... Don't let the "I need time to recover emotionally" throw you off. That's bullshit. If anything, your chances are highest now that she's lonely (presumably). You've done all the touching, now it's time to kiss her and fuck her.

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I guessed that I'm friendzoned becouse I "was there for her...when she needed"...and didn't open sexual fearless...but I kino escalated-though thank you...P.S: I am am rAFC. and this is my oneitis

I don't think I like "What are my chances" threads. It's needy, it's redundant, it's annoying, and it's pointless.

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