Hey guys,
So I was at a club last weekend, an upper side place and I was just wondering around as usually with my colleague when I spotted this girl. Usually I am not driven much by the looks, but this one was different. Yes, she was stunning, slim body, cute looking face, great make up, and boy did she know how to dress, but anyways, it’s not that much about the looks to me, as I am kind of used to it by now. I presumed her to have her fair share of class, intelligence, and style, she really looked as someone more mature than the girls you normally meet in clubs. So, obviously we approached her, she was with her friends. The approach itself did not go too well, my friend said a couple of stupid things, but that’s not what the story’s about. She was truly confident, did not linger for a second when talking to us, but confident in a good way, not an arrogant one, she basically let us down easy, seemed like a nice person. Later, however, I found out that all my original assumptions of her were totally off, and she did not differ much from the original club girls who are all about recent dance/electro etc. music and doing her hair. Appearance can be deceitful you know, safe to say I completely lost interest in her. So I am beginning to think that clubs just aren’t for me, can’t seem to find anything more or less interesting there, have anyone of you experienced anything similar and what places would you suggest to meet some true quality girls?

Good job my man. Problem with clubs. 1) Assume all woman think their hot and every guy wants them and will act as such. Example. You just witnessed what I just said. 2) Anytime you approach a girl in a club, Game is over she already knows what you want. What you should do is hit on her friend make it look like you want the friend and Make fun of the target as well. This way she wont realize your going after her. 3) You want quality woman there is no such thing as the quality woman store or quality woman club. Its hit and miss. You can meet great woman anywhere, but you can also meet shallow/slutty woman anywhere. But Why not try the local grocery store etc. Alot easier to walk up to a girl say hey Im so and so and get a conversation going. Before you leave say something like "Give me a call sometime" and walk away. If she is interested she will say i dont have your number and you say O it slipped my mind, what is your number and I'll text you mine.
Or just be straight up honest. "Well I'm giong to get back to shopping, but it be cool to continue this conversation later on. Whats your number?......No need to beat around the bush my man. She is either interested or she is not. Id rather be straight forward with a girl and if i get the number I know she is interested . Then use some beat around the bush tactic like most guys do in which they still get the number but they usually get no return text or call

Any questions?

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Clubs are a terrible place to find quality women, they are however good for getting numbers and getting laid. If a girl spends most of her nights off in a club, getting wasted, seeking attention, and having random sex you can clearly observe that she lacks value and self respect...these girls can be fun but it rare to find "quality" at the bar or club. Is it possible? of course it is but for the most part no.

The best place to meet quality women is while doing something you enjoy (hobbies), I am big into health and fitness so most often the women I meet at the gym, doing yoga, at the park ect ect are clean, respectable women.

Values to me are very important! A women who respects her self and has a good set of values wants substance in her life, she won't be interested in living in the club from friday to sunday...again though if your looking for pure looks and sex, the club is probably your best outlet.

You also have to take into account the fact that most women in the club are done up to the max! a girl who looks like a solid 9 or 10 might in reality be a 7 with less makeup, without fake eyelashes, and that tight skirt...on the street you typically see women for what they are.

Ah, day game calls you my friend.

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