Hi guys got a girl ive know for years but moved away coming home for christmas and new years break we keep in touch via FB etc from time to time and when i put a status about a trip im doing for new years she PM me to ask if she can come along as she doesnt know anyone in town theses days bar her family.

My question is , is it too late to make a move as we have know each other for so long or should i go for it while we are away and if so what should i do as a lead up and during to improve my chances as ive always liked the idea of hooking up with her but never went any further.

Ps this would help big time with my case of oneitis which has been annoying me for a few weeks now

cheers Jake

cheers for the advice KINO is a very powerful tool i have found recently but what sort of shit tests should i expect and what are some good pays to get around them/pass etc

we have been talking alot more reguarly now we are going away so what can i do via msgs to set the scene abit better?

cheers jake

wow that is great advice thanks very much tony

cheers Jake

My advice. Wait for it to come up naturally in the conversation, and indicate to her that you are "kind of seeing someone". Hmm..."kind of?" What does that really mean? She'll probably ask you that. The purpose of this is to let her know you are desired by other women, and to false disqualify yourself and let her know you don't necessarily need or want to hook up with her. That will take the pressure off of her and she'll relax around you.

You of course still game her like normal, and do all the things Tony said. Then you start giving her the impression that it isn't really working out with the other girl you were seeing, and that you are thinking about calling it off with her for good. Not many women want a guy to cheat on another girl to be with her, but most of them won't mind if he dumps some other bitch and then gets with her instead.

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where the hell were you guys when i was 17 lol cheers ninja got coffee with a girl i met awhile back and havent seen for awhile so ill try a few things out and see how i go

cheers Jake

Just make sure you never ever apologize for your intent. Stick with it, even if she doesn't like it. She'll respect you for it.

cheers guys have got the ball rolling and is working good SPAM

cheers Jake