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I love to dance and have no problem approaching and picking up girls on the dance floor. I find these methods helpful as the night progresses a high percentage of girls gravitate towards the dance floor and stay.
I truly enjoy a wide variety of music so I have no problem being self amused which I believe is the opposite of being a dancing monkey who dance to try to impress. In fact most of my dance moves are low class and are meant for me to be silly for me to laugh at my self. Plus they do not need any dancing skills or a high energy in terms of cardio.
My dance moves:
1) The Macarana: it is easy to do and can go with any beat (ie: country, dub step, house electro, etc etc ...). Plus everyone knows this dance move and you can easily get the whole dance floor doing it.
2) Voguing: Use your hands to make box shapes with hands surrounding face.
3) Laser guns: Shoot imaginary bullets with your imaginary hand guns to the beat.
4) Peace sign hovering over eyes.
5) Walking like an Egyptian.
6) If you know the lyrics to the song ... start sing into a imaginary microphone. Girls will see this and girls will join and sing in your imaginary microphone.
7) When a group of girls are dancing in a circle ... simply jump in the middle and start dancing with all of them one at a time .... then approach your target. May seem outrages ... but most of the time they will enjoy it and welcome you in or allow you to approach your target.
Most of these dance moves are not to impress anyone and ironically enough girls tend to gravitate to you because they see you all self amused and comfortable/relaxed not caring about what people say about you. Which I believe is one of the paradoxical methods in game. Most girls will see you being self amused and will start reciprocating your dance moves. This method works so well that you may have to watch out not to rely on it because it will lose its affects. Basically, if you are not afraid to put your personality on the line = girls are attractive. If you do these dance move to impress girls = dancing monkey. When this works you will notice that girls will start copying your dance moves or when girls give you proximity. The funniest thing I see often is when girls give you proximity and they stick their ass pointing towards you and starts to reverse towards you like a truck reversing (I would make beeping noise just like what a truck reversing would sound like in my head for my entertainment ... tahhaah). Simply claw (grab her arm) and pull her towards you in a relax and comfy way. Don't make it a big deal! Or just approach by saying hi.
You can even steal girls from chodes grinding her from behind moving like a zombie if you apply the dance moves above with maintaining eye contact with her. Basically, be self amused when dancing, and make eye contact with and hold it to maintain tension. Again she will give you invitations by leaving the chode and coming near you (proximity). Simply approach afterwards.
But, of course I do not rely on these dance moves to hook girls, mostly it's for my entertainment. When I do see a girl I like I would simply ignore all obstacles and approach directly to the target. I would shake her hand and spin her and get close to her in a ball room dance position (my left hand holding her right while my right is wrapped around her waste). We would simply dance to the beat and be very close to each other. I would establish rhythm by swaying back and forward from/to her. If I want to say something to her I would come close to her and then sway back while maintaining laser eyes with hers. I would repeat this process but progressively get closer to the girl until our noises or foreheads touch each other. This rhythm build can be accomplished with out saying anything but instead of just swaying back and forward to the beat. Eventually enough tension will be built up and a kiss will ensue. I guess this method is similar to push/pulling but portrayed in a physical sense instead of a verbal method. But, remember maintain your laser eyes with her to maintain the sexual tension. When this works, you will notice that the girl will have anime eyes or like her eyes are super wide open like she is on drugs. If you have problems making eye contact with her because she won't stare you in the eyes ... simply say "Hey" every 10 seconds to get her attention back to you and get that eye contact established.
If you don't feel like dancing, you can even approach a girl on the dance floor and directly show your intentions of considering her being cute and that you had to meet her. I would go physical right away and bring her closer to me. We can stand there, without dancing, and talk whispering in each others ear again build rhythm by swaying back and forwards away/towards her and maintain eye contact.
The more advance method is going physical right away. Approaching from the front and grabbing her arm, making eye contact, being relax and comfy, then pull her in as you wrap your arms around her waist. This works very well and will not be consider creepy or perverted if you show that this is not a big deal indicating that you are just a very aggressive guy and this is how you interact with girls all the time. The main point her is to have a poker face and not have this stupid look in your face showing her "wow I can't believe this worked" face.
If your target is surrounded by other guys/girls making a circle to protect outside predators, just simply ignore her friends and go straight to your target. Make sure to establish a man to woman interaction right away by wrapping your arm around her waist and not make it a big deal. The cool thing about this is roughly 80% of the time, by you going in hard everyone else will be in spectator mode watching you approach their friend. When everyone is in spectator mode you can simply ask for the friends permission to steal your target away, with them agree. If they try to steal your target away ... simply scare them away by saying: "Hey, fuck off! She is mine ... get the fuck out of her! Pack your shit and leave! You are done in this town!" 50% of the time they will run away and the other 50% they will laugh it off and let it be.
All these method I learned from my nights going out and also learned most of these method from Real Social Dynamics off Tim and Tim's Flawless Natural and also from Tyler Durden. The reason why most of these methods work is due to the fact that I am self amused, out come independent, I show no ambiguity to my intentions, I'm relaxed and comfortable, I'm not thinking I hope this impress everyone or I hope they like me ... and I am dominant!
Hope that helped!
Sincerely,
Donston
Donston this is an excellent display of club game, and i find a lot of similarities with what i do, i do disagree with the dancing moves that you listed, i really believe in the type of moves that when the girl sees you in her head she is thinking "i want to fuck that dude", the second thing i disagree is with the grabbing, i only grab in latin music or beats when initially approaching... Good stuff dude!
The lists above is for my entertainment ^_^. Plus, it's very simple to do if you do not know how to dance. But, I get a lot of attention from doing them from everyone in the club. Girls would approach me themselves during or later of the night, bartenders would give me IOIs and it's super easy to approach them afterward and the best part is guys/chodes will hate you for it. Again, the reason it works is because it shows that I'm not afraid to put my personality on the line and I'm comfortable and relaxed that everyone is spectating the main character of the place ... which is me ^_^. Of course once I'm with a girl I to would establish my sexual intent with Salsa, Margay, and Bachata(it's like sex dancing O_O) dancing and reply with "This is a preview of what will happen in the near future." ... tahahaha
I've been learning from Real Social Dynamics for half a year now and their teaching states to go physical immediate. Of course you must establish self amusement, entitlement (like this is regular to you and this is how you interact with woman all the time), I'm out come independent, and in state.... for you going physical right away to work efficiently. BUT, of course I would back off if I immediately sense she is uncomfortable about this. I would just back off and say "woops" ... then continue like it never happened. A lot of the time girls who do see me being aggressive will approach me themselves and I get the reply "You are aggressive!". Then I would grab her and bring her close.
Hahaha ... but, non the less thanks for the complements and feed back! I believe clubbing/pickup is really fun when you start doing/going for what you want! But, of course it's easier said then done ^_^. It took me a while to realize this and actually apply it.
Sincerely
Donston
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