A lot of members slam mystery method on here and I guess say it don't work? For me, I think I should use it, because my mind sort of works in phases, so it would help - but why bother if it don't work?

Not that I have a problem with going direct, but what do you guys think of this issue

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Mystery Method: centered on the actual process of pick up- looking for creative ways to approach women.
Natural Game: centered on end result.


You'll still get to the end result with MM if you do it efficiently, but it's more easier if you're natural.

It's sort of like zigzagging vs. just going straight.

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I've seen women call people out on using MM and it's soul-crushingly embarrassing for them. Probably because every person I've seen use it isn't adaptable ("She's supposed to say this and then I do THIS." Whereas with natural game, you can be cool with unpredictability.

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I can tell you why Mystery method worked for me.

I ended up far too many times in the FZ. Why? Because i didn't escalate. I didn't kino. And i never knew when it was time to k-close. Even though i was sloppy from the begining, i knew i have to touch her, neg her playfully from time to time, and eventually kiss her if i want to make things go further.

So i did it.

MM, natural game, or any other "game" for that matter, all have one common point: Take action

Learn all of them, test it and take only what works for you. Sometimes I'll do some of MM, sometimes i'll go direct. Because i feel like it. And if i get a good response, i'll continue, otherwise i'll change my approach.

For me, MM works. Even though it is a bit too "step by step" method for my taste; but with that you can pinpoint where you did something wrong.

To answer your question, Does Mystery method works?[/b]
Taking actions works. And MM is just one form of that.

Best luck, and don't give up if you don't succed at first

The Mystery Method can be summarized as follows:
1. Meet drunk girl.
2. Neg.
3. Ask 'Do you want to kiss me?'
4. ???
5. Profit.

Whether it works or not doesn't really matter to me, because I think it teaches things from the wrong perspective. The goal of the Mystery Method is to minimize the chances of rejection by constructing a fake persona. But what you should learn is that people should be their best selves, and that rejection is a part of life. That is a much healthier and resilient attitude toward women, and toward life in general.

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I think there is a reason that we all have all heard of mystery method to begin with. Just reading the "the game" is enough to persuade anyone to use mystery method. I think it still works but like all other methods they must be mastered. Kinda like the person above saying it always put him in the FZ and never escalated. It just takes practice and then after practice it takes you to sit down and correct where you have been stumbling. There is no doubt in my mind the Mystery Method works, just like all things it just takes practice.

Does it work? Sure, it can. Is it efficient? No. Is it the "best" method? No. Will it make you happy? Probably not.

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the MM is a very detailed game plan, for some it can be overly complicated, it is a lot of fun to use sometimes cause it's just like completing steps to reach an objective where you are always aware of what your next goal is (assuming you understand the method), in that sense it is very comforting and can bring you some confidence if you have no idea what you are doing, but if the M3 model confuses you, then it isn't of much benefit at all and it would probably make more sense if you were to make a game plan that is more simple and work on it until it is efficient

the other useful thing about the MM is you can break down problem areas in your game and address sticking points in the specific areas of M3 (A1-S3), also if you're a really good actor you could get pretty good at it, if not you may come off pretty incongruent

TL:DR if you fully understand it and take lots action instead of trying to learn theory to be perfect, it can be useful to start with, if you don't it will just lead you to confusion and mental masturbation

if you are starting out and want a solid game plan that isn't too overly complicated, check out 60 years of challenge, or design your own game plan that you understand that has a process in order for you to reach your objective (plan that has includes ''what'' you want to achieve, and ''how'' you want to achieve it), field test it on a group of women and see how it does, then review and revise and improve