Not sure where to start might be a little long.

Went out to the strip club the other night, was about to leave when I saw this really hot stripper working, Well I get some dances from her and i asked for her number and she put it in my phone and she would tell me stuff like she wanted to rape me and all types of shit. Well she would put her hands down my pants and felt on my dick I was kissing her on the lips all night. She even told me to pull her hair to which i did. She told me we should hang out on her day off which is in 2 more days.

Well that same night i texted her and told her i missed her she never responded back that night, but she did call the next day talking some crazy shit like how she wants to put peaches and cream on me and lick it all up i cant believe what im hearing so i play along. Well she told me she couldnt wait to see me and how she misses me i told her i could come see her now but she said that she was busy. She text me later telling me she missed me and wanted to know if i would come visit her at the club, I never responded back because i wasnt sure what to do. Well later on in the day my friend ask me if i wanted to go to the strip club I told him i didnt care, we ended up going but she wasnt working at the same club i met her at she was working at another. stayed anyways and had a decent time but not as much fun as i had the night before. I texted her after the club telling her I was trying to surprise her and that i missed her. no response well as i am writing this she texts me back telling me she sorry and she was pmsing so she didnt go into work last night but asked me again if id come in and surprise her today.

Well I am not sure how to play my cards right now, should i go see her or wait till saturday? I am not sure right now if she genuinely likes me or is just trying to get to my wallet . Again she is really hot actually the hottest girl in that club. She also 2 years older than me. any advice would help.

Thanks

If you're a hot dude and girls are constantly throwing themselves at you then MAYBE she actually likes you as a possible boyfriend or just fuck buddy. If you are just an average guy then this is all a ploy to get more of your money.

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Well i just got out of a 4 year relationship not to long ago but I did get hit on a lot while i was in the relationship. i'm curious on how I should handle the situation should i go see her tonight or just wait till saturday to see what happens? she just texted me back Hello because i havent responded back to her previous text.

OK well a little bit of time has passed and she just called me LOL but i didnt answer. I got to figure how to play my cards first, everything is new to me again any advice would be awesome.

Does this really need a thread? she's texting and calling you. Rare for a "money ploy" to do such a thing.

Apart from that, if she EVER asks for money just say no, if she says the club demands it then simply say that you can wait. If she demands money then walk away. Simple.

I mess with strippers sometimes and I currently talk to a few. this sounds like she's playing you and using push pull on you.

strippers are known as "players of the game" because theyve seen and heard it all.

unless you look like brad pitt, this seems she's just probably going through a hard time and she's just messing around.

telling her you miss her isn't helping. it comes off needy. dont let her dictate when she wants you to see you. as a guy, it's your job to make the date and set time and place. if she flakes it's cool, just wait a few days and give her another go.

dont visit her at work

please pass on

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The thing is, strippers haven't necessarily seen it all. Depending also on how long they've been doing it. All they've seen is desperate guys or guys who have more money than they know what to do with. They are told to act a certain way around guys in order to extract money. But once they encounter a pua or somebody who understands how to maintain power over them, they don't really know what to do, as they don't have a frame of reference for it.

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