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Hey guys!
I have known this girl for about 3 weeks. Tomorrow night most of the class i have been in, are hitting the town! (7-8 guys...and just one chick!....brilliant!)
So far flirting and kino have been frequent..lots of ioi's... always touching and squeezing my arm etc etc
she is, however, very flirtatious but just more with me...i think i have done pretty well but tomorrow night is the night i need to make shit happen!
I need some sort of routines or ideas to put me that few steps ahead of the crowd..
I have a few hours in the daytime tomorrow and then we are out for the night after that....
Any Ideas?
Jet
Let me make sure I understand this. She has had 3 weeks to form an impression of you. You guys flirt, laugh, she gives you IOIs which may or may not be fake...etc. Hmm so for 3 weeks we've just been some guy she flirts with probably she thinks of as a friend...and now we need to make a move. Well after slapping your wrist for waiting this long, there are a few things we can do.
You are going to need to do your best to isolate her from the crowd when you can and turn on the charm. You need to really make an effort to get to know her. When she talks you need to be attentively listening and not off in your head thinking about some routine you want to hit her with. Keep the kino going as she talks, move in closer, and go for the kiss to move things along. As you ramp up kino be prepared for the Let's just be friends speech which could come since she may have already placed you firmly in the friend zone in her mind...either it'll happen or it won't. Good for you for taking a chance.