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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 1:45 am 
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Good day in the field with valuable lessons

Opened myself by talking to some girls I met earlier in the week
At lunch I was talking to a girl I know about movies and alot of other stuff. Gave her some high fives. I was qualifying quiet well. Tried to insta-date her but she couldn't come.

approach #1 hb7 (one set on a bench)
Blonde hb, kinda thick but the good kind with brown eyes and good smile. Sat next to her and just opened with a how are you. We began fluffing and I began moving closer and microescalating. I was disqualifying her alot and going with the cocky funny. I did A little cold reading. I noticed she began to get more and more attracted as the interaction kept going. I continued the cocky funny, teasing, and DQing. She was laughing at it all. At one point i was holding her hand for like a good 2 minutes. I'll take that for a semi IOM (its on moment). I soft closed her *sigh* dumb move and later she doesn't reply to the text.
-Escalate further I should have gone for a kiss on the cheek next or a kiss
-qualify more
-cut some of the cocky funny. Its best done a sprinkle not a shower.
-hold that initial handshake and the ending hug

Later i went to the mall and continued my daily sarging

approach #2 hb6 one set
Stopped her and went direct. She was all giggles and laughing and surprised and generally loving it. I tried to get her to spin but she didn't. I couldn't bounce her to some chairs but she said she couldn't. Should have gone with more persistence and kept talking or even shopped with her.
-little kino
-little qualifying
-hold the handshake and the ending hug

approach #3 hb8 latina pretty cute (one set)
saw her go into a store and after some hesitation followed. Went direct. She was a great looking girl. I could tell lots of guys hit on her all the time. we were talking but she was really shopping and i was accompanying her around the store trying to persist. She kept saying i was funny when i went cocky funny. I kept doing it and she kept laughing but i never went into comfort stage by qualifying and building rapport. She said she doesnt give out number easily. Then she asked for my name, I told her i dont give out that easily. I just gave her a hug and bounced when we left that store.
-little kino, she was a moving target
-qualify qualify qualify, screen and tell women why you like them.
-didnt milk the intro/outro (handshake and hug :lol:)

Today I feel like I sarged well. I noticed I only approach one sets which is a problem I need to add some group theory and some two sets and three sets in there. Also i consistently find ways to improve body language. I need to rock on my back foot during the beginning. Also never approach from the back. Improve eye contact too.

I did a good job slowing down. NEED to be slower. MAN DO I NEED TO MILK THAT HANDSHAKE AND THAT HUG.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 6:00 am 
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Fapped..sry

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 1:29 pm 
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Been approaching like crazy, working on my game. Been trying to work on milking the outro and the intro and qualification and all of its facets i watched this AMAZING video by Adam Lyons about qualification. Very Very groundbreaking to my game. Also Daniel Balboa (read his journal) has put me onto some good info about caveman mentality/dominance and going for it.

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went to a large university to sarge. With a weak wing. I really cant seem to find wings that are just down to approach. Yeah alot of these guys have had more women then me but they have AA so and i'm trying to be a PUA nothing less. So i was johny Berba stopping girls on the street

Approach #4 3 set
Went into a group of 3 girls hit one direct and told her she was beautiful, the other girls just walked away. She didn't hook and walked away
-in group theory its better to go indirect maybe and make a direct statement to the target
-don't approach from the back
-be more assertive in street game so the hook

approach #5 one set
Stopped a girl for directions , then told her she was beautiful. She was thouroughly creeped lol
- once again dominant presence
- stand in front of the girl but rock on back heels

approach #6 fine ass hb9
she had great tits i saw her and hit her up for directions. Told her she was pretty and asked her to marry me. She was flirting back. I didn't think to continue the interaction cuz no one had stopped. I just said big hug i felt those tits on my body mmmmmmhmmm.
-try to get an instant date
-walk with her
-qualify her to get the conversation going
-mirror body language and make direct seductive eye contact

after i got out of class went to some coffee shops

approach #7 red haired hb 7.5
Saw her walk into the bookstore/ cofee shop and just went for it. Went direct and she told me i made her day. I did a little c/f and told her i'd help her look for her book. I told her her career was interesting. But i let her leave. I realized that alot of puas just keep talking when the woman tries to leave. They go for a hug or a hand shake. I also rewarded her compliance with hugs.
-just keep talking dont let her leave
-go for instant dates
-qualify better
-milk it a little more linger those touches

was gonna go home but wanted one more so i went somewhere else

approach #8 ugly girl
I hadnt felt like i milked and qualified enough so I went for another one. She was str8 poo like triggity trash. I just milked it and qualified to get the convo going and BOUNCED!!!!!
-try to find actual attractive girls :mrgreen:

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 1:47 pm 
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Me and the lil hispanic cutie SuzieChoosy went to a grocery store. I qualified her on her sense of style told her i liked it. I disqualified myself and used some cocky funny. She was eating it up. I want to get more in her space and go more caveman. I need to get that mentality down. In the end she told me to come over and hug her but neither one of us would go to the other. lol i just got back in my car and drove away i'm not falling for that "come chase me" frame. In my disqualifications I am trying to calibrate. I think i'm going to start telling girls, you dont want to hang out with me i'm too picky or something along those lines to dictate pre selection and higher value.

Later was completly out of state but still sarged.

approach #9 hired gun
I was flirting with her hard core from the time i walked in the store. I even got her to come with me to show me things. She was eating it up. I was cocky funny and calm. They called her back to the front though -.- cock blocks.
-mirror her body language
-make better eye contact in the beginning
-stand closer

approach #10 1set
walked into a study room and talked to this girl, she was intent on studying and it was quiet in there i just bounced

approach#11 1set
Sat down with this trash girl and talked to her. I was practicing milking it and qualifying. She told me she was a homebody and she wasnt attractive so I just found a way to excuse myself from the conversation after 20 minutes or so. I love witty people and she could tounge spar so it was entertaining for the moment.
-I have to verbally come onto girls a little more and be a little more flirtatious

approach#12 1set
street approach. She didnt hook
-stand infront of the girl and stand close

Overall i would say i'm inproving but i still need lays and hangouts and followups. I have been breaking my game down to small manageable levels. I think I'm going to continue with my escalation/qualification stage I think its very cool.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 6:57 am 
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This is just my opinion!

nice job on the approaches, seems like you are going through somewhat of the same route I went!

For me, on that route, girls are my fun. so I don't really give a shit.(I also have a lot of other things going for me personality wise/confidence/working out etc)

But for the purposes of getting laid, there are a lot of fail safe type deals(Routines etc) It seems like your trying to do both!!

If you are trying to get laid real bad, seems like you are; Then a mistake I found really quickly in daygame for getting laid, was the sexual talk.

If you come up to her state and your intentions(Maybe give her a bit of suspense at the beginning, so shes caught off guard at a compliment "OMG I have to tell you something" ,"Look this is strange" etc) then all you need to do is have a genuine conversation.

Yea fluff! Statements are fine, aslong as you come off as a genuine human being, the number will be x10 more solid lol.

You'l most likely get a date, which you can playfully relocate her to a place of sex. Then close the deal! Things really are that simple there lol. (And boring)

The problem with that sexual stuff, is that even if you get the girl in that emotional place very well, she's going to fall out of it and then what?? She'll be stuck with a memory of some random guy. Unless your really good with attraction, constantly being able to exude it after you meet her over text and then till the arranged date.

Personally Im not too much of a fan of getting laid the normal way as I know I'l most likely end up not liking sex because that's all I'll be really getting out of the experience after awhile.

If you want to get good the way your going and the way Im still going(harder I find) Is to improve yourself constantly, try to enjoy women as much as possible and let them know. Let nothing they do affect you you too much, always have fun, there are no rules! Sexual shit right of the bat is perfectly fine this route, infact I find pickup almost irrelevant. The social structures used in this route come more from a subconscious place and you rely on internal factors like personality,charm and those sort of things. I think the journey to sex and the time spent with women is x10 more important then the actual sex.

In the process of that you will change your life too!!

I hope this helps, it's mostly a ramble, but it seems your on the right track lol. Getting laid isn't all that fun I will be honest, maybe for some guys. The hunt is x10 better I find;Finding fresh new meat!!

All the best, daygamers got to get better together! lol

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 7:39 pm 
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yeah bro, I guess i gotta go for more day 2's and kiss closes but i havent really been able to get to that i've really been focusing on that

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2012 2:53 am 
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gotten a day 2 or two. Been Focusing on my inner game and just general comfort. I need to bounce women back to the crib and just tell them. I want to kiss you and go for it. Fuck rejection i'd rather blow out like a man than a pussy

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2012 6:23 am 
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Ive been getting my sets in right now ive been working on making the interaction flirty and also in the qords of db burn every set to the ground. I just gotta hit on the girls now. Sorry I have been neglecting my journal,

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nice work bro keep it up man , the more u put in the more your going to get out. trust me I'm on the same journey and ever since i started I've noticed i have been a lot more happier and its sick :) contagious


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Preciate it bro as much as I want,to quit sometimes butt sex isnt appealing lmao
my bro told me that I keep em guessing enough, ima be working on push pull for the next few weeks

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:mrgreen: Geeeezzzzz its been so longgggggg!!! I bet you guys thought I had become one of the 95% of dropouts but naaaaaaa I'm still here practicing pickup and i've gotten results. I finally started to understand Pick-up around the time i stopped posting on my journal. I lost my V-card and since then have kissed closed 2 girls. I have also gotten some #'s and my overall game has gotten better. I'm still here practicing pick-up tryna get better on the road to a mpua


The virginity loss (descriptive asssss FUCK)

It was probably about 3 weeks ago maybe 4. I was on my way home from school on a cold frigid day. I was kinda disgruntled and relieved at the same time because "I HAVE FINALLY FIGURED OUT THE BASICS OF PICK UP" i thought to myself "now I just need some fuckin results" (its all about connecting emotionally and physically). I drive into my apartment complex and park in front of my building.I sigh as I roll up my windows and shiver a tiny bit as the flow of cold air is disrupted. I exit my car in an abrupt manner and begin the short walk up the stairs. I get about halfway up then I hear...

..."i didn't know you lived here!!!" yelled from across the parking lot. I turn around and standing behind an open car door is a tall lanky girl. I think its another girl i met in the parking lot earlier in the week so I walk back and talk to her.
"ohhh hey" i say realizing it aint the cute girl from another day

- "hi i'm SFG(sent from god)"

"i'm great-1"

- "You have such a great sense of style!(IOI) i always see you at school and say hi but you've never stopped"

"huh i dont remember that" I give her a hug as a reward

- "yeah i saw you at the waffle thing"

"yeah I remember you now" *hug*

-"you really like giving hugs"

-"give me your # so we can hang out" (IOI)

She is 6 foot, unattractive and super skinny but to be polite i give her my number. Then...
...I notice she is loving the hugs and her...eye. contact.is.like.a.wolf.LOOKING AT A WOUNDED CARIBOU :shock: !!! its fuckin ONNNNN

-"I make fudge all time and I bake if you ever want some you can come get some"(IOI)

"well let me have some right now"

- "well okay, get in my car and we can go to my building"

I get in her car and SHUT THE FUCK UP its wayyyy easier to kill attraction than the rebuild it. Shes doing all the talking. Shes qualifying herself and telling me all sorts of things. We get to her building across the complex. The only thing I say is "I think your accent is sexy" to build sexual tension. I get out and walk toward the stairs but i'm trying to look smooth and my foot catches the curb. I trip and almost fall.

SFG - "ha ha you almost fell"

"no i didn't you didnt see anything" :oops: :lol:

We walk up to her apartment, a one bedroom (no roommates), and she opens the door.

-sorry its soo dirty, normally i dont let people in when its dirty just let me clean up.

"naa its okay"

I step in the door and shes picking up. She passes me some fudge. Its aight but that aint what I came for and we both know it.

-"its soo dirty i'm sorry"

"naa it aint a big deal" I give her a hug, the sexual tension is tangible. I'm horny assss fuckkkkk
even though this girl looks like miley cyrus, tall blonde, ugly and beat with a stick.
We are looking deep into each others eyes. I look down at her lips and go for it. (this is the first time i've ever done that) Our lips press. I peck her soft once, twice, then i suckle on her lip. We stop kissing and true to bitch nature and asd. She goes right back to talking about her house. As if nothing happend! She shows me her disney movie collection. I triangular gaze again and kiss her. We start making out. I steer her towards the bedroom and lay her down. Its going down. I kiss her and bite her bottom lip. She sighs long and hard pleasurably while we continue to kiss. Shirts come off. Her breasts are small and wierd looking. I'm a little disgusted as a realize AGAIN that this girl isnt beautiful shes trash, garbage, SHE AINT SHITTTTT!!! but fuck it the pick-up gods have blessed me. They want me to take that first step. I roll over and she gets on top. I go for her zipper.

-"we just met like 5 minutes ago in a parking log" (token resistance, ASD)

"your right" *deep sensual whisper*
I instead pull out my willy lol
she grabs my dick

-"why are you so badddd"

"why are YOUUUU so bad" lol i didnt know what to say so i repeated what she said
I tell her to suck it

-"okay just a little, im not about that life" (more token resistance)
My dicks in her mouth, the head is sub fucking par. I dont care I'm trying to cum. She wants me too but a cant.

^me and this girl literally met like 10 mins ago in a parking lot, I AM A PUA^

she stops mid-head to ask me -"what do you like about me",
I skipped qualification and look it came back up during the close. You cant skip steps really dj fuji talks about this and so does savoy

She continues to suck but i cannot nut. She gets tired and we stop.
We begin to connect emotionally. She is talking about how she wants to be a rapper and her passion for rap music...Shes a white girl. We continue to fluff about where we are from, majors ETC ETC. I tell her she cant turn me on. She is rubbing all on me and kissing me. I turn around and get her on the couch. I'm kneeling on the floor and shes splayed across the couch.

I am rubbing that pussy through her pants. and making out with her. She grabs my hand its puts in down there....I open my eyes while we are kissing and look at her. DAMN SHES STILL UGLY. I put my fingers deep in and rub the upper inside, le g-spot. She is squirming all over the couch and moaning. She moans and sensually whispers "fuck me"

I pull down my pants pull em out and tell her to put it in for me. (I didnt want to get the wrong hole) She is on her back and i go to the foot of the couch where her legs laying. She grabs it, squirms and I enter. I begin thrusting my hips hard. I dont have on a condom and this still doesn't feel as good as advertised. I'm trying to make it clap porno style while i pull her hair and kiss her neck. She tells me to put her legs on my shoulders. I comply and start beating it up. (I make her say my name lol extramask did this in the game so why not). My dick continues to pop out cuz i'm getting too wild. She cums then I cum.

I take a good look at her. YUCK ...shes still trash. I make an excuse and HIGHTAIL IT OUTTA THERE lol.


Teachable points:
In the beginning you see she opens me. Good game is not about being sexually aggressive its about being receptive the the girls that are down. She then IOI's me and tells me a way I could Isolate her. I know its on because she is holding eye contact and she wants to see me again. She doesn't shy away from my touch at all when I hug her. I stopped talking on the ride there because it is very easy to kill the tension. She wants to fuck me and I'm horny. The only thing i say is "your accent is sexy" and that raised the tension.

Sexual tension coupled with emotional connection is essentially what game is. You find ways to rattle her emotional state (push pull), then you connect with her (connect and qualify). Then you get her comfortably with you physically (comfort) and you create sexual tension (seduction). ALL METHODS essentially are just finding ways to do that. Some times you can skip the emotional part and just go straight physical (60's method, bits and pieces of gunwitchs method). If you have purely physical it wont turn into a LTR or relationships. If you have purely emotional you won't get lays and seductions. In order for complete success with women you have got to be good at creating and sustaining both. :P

When I isolate her the tension is fully raised. I can feel it and so can she and it has to be released through sexual acts or through supplicative gestures. Supplicative gestures include: laughing, talking too much, shying away from her, pleasant small talk, general fucking TALKING. YOU WANT TO FUCK THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP (i've learned this). This is why if you have ever been kissing a girl or being physical/flirting physically with a girl sometimes you or her laugh. That's a tension break, your trying to stop that little uncomfortable awkward feeling that is sexual tension AKA you want to fuck each other. There is tension and I use a triangular gaze to kiss her.

She doesn't want to acknowledge it so after we kiss the first time. She giggles and begins talking about Disney movies to break it but I keep it up and kiss her again leading to the bedroom. YOU HAVE TO LEAD THE INTERACTION that's what dominance is. Women naturally follow strong me. I TELL HER to suck my cock. I didn't ask.

Also since i skip qualification she asks me why i like her in the middle of sucking my dick. You always gotta tell her whats cool or different about her so she doesn't feel like a slut. You also notice she gives token resistance for the same "i'm not a slut" reason. In order to get the lay i connected with her emotionally and we got physical and the rest is history.
The whole thing took 2 hours including 30 -40 minutes of sex.

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first day back sarging. Crippled by AA it reallyyy sucked.

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This is post I made on congruency, I think its an amazing post so ima keep repost it in mi journal

Let me tell you a story.

I have a friend named Jack who dove head first into the Tucker Maxx craze. Tucker Maxx is a natural who is a complete dueche but gets away with it. He is incredibly dominant, he gets drunk, starts fights, does jackass type things and has sex with women. He chronicles his drunken adventures in books. (very entertaining) Jack wanted to be like Tucker Maxx in every single way. So he read the books and became infested with the spirit of duechbaggery and general assholledness.

Jack ran around our high school insulting students and teachers alike. He even stood outside a female empowerment seminar at our school and continuously told the women that were exiting, IN TEARS btw, that no matter what they were told in that seminar they are still bitches and they'd be "damn fools" to think that they are special. :lol:

The difference between Tucker and our old buddy Jack was that Tucker was loved and adored. People just shrugged it off and accepted that as his true personality. Jack on the other hand became hated by many and called a bad person. They said he was tryinggggg to be an asshole and that he was doing way to much.

Tucker Maxx is a real life asswipe. Jack is a wanna be. The reason why Jack didn't end up with lots of lays and GF's is because he wasn't CONGRUENT with being an asshole.

Congruence basics

If you dress a sheep up like a wolf, he still aint a wolf.


So what is congruence? its Agreement, harmony, conformity, or correspondence. One of the greatest drives of a human being is to stay congruent. This is why a person who is dirt shit poor can win the lottery go from having 10 thousand to 10 million and still go broke after a number of years and end up with 10 thousand dollars once again. Its because they are incongruent with being rich, they make broke ass decisions and that why they are broke.

If your outside doesn't match your inside you are incongruent. A large majority of Pick-up is mental so your inner game must be congruent because incongruency will murder your seduction. A huge portion of success is your mindset.

As we all know I can give a AFC all the lines in the world but even if he says them. If he isnt congruent with the material then seduction is unlikely.

See women are seduction hounds. They can smell an incongruency faster than you can smell the shit that your dog left on the living room floor.

A BIG SEDUCTIVE LIE

There is no true perfect method that you can master. I once asked Chief a question and i remember vividly he messaged me back "I DONT KNOW MOTHER FUCKER CAN PICASSO TELL DALI, HOW TO PAINT, CAN DALI TELL PICASSO HOW TO PAINT." :evil: I could feel the spittle coming into my virgin gpua face as i read it. (naaa jk it didnt go down like that but it woulda been alot funnier...for him atleast check out his outer game guide its the shit chief-s-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html ). A similar thing when happened when I asked Daniel Balboa as well. He told me that everyone has their own specific style and what matters most is developing that.(his journal...by far one of the best all-that-is-man-daniel-balboa-s-journal-vt134792.html )

That is why Mystery Method works extremely well for MYSTERY but for you...well it just might flat out suck or it might be amazing.Its HISSS METHOD, his style, and his routines. Its just how congruent you are with the material. Likewise cocky funny works for some people extremely well (i have found the more unattractive you are the better IMO) but for me it just makes me seem like an ass. You don't adopt a method in pick-up, you develop your own.

There is not nor will there ever be a perfect or fail-safe method. Cuz every pua is different and so is every HB

Now here is where things get specific

1) before i believed i could pull women...I couldn't pull women. even though i was talking to women i didn't believe women liked me so having women on my jock was incongruent. Mindset is everything

story time! One day I was chillin, analyzing why this woman flaked on me. BOOOOM IT HIT ME. The types of women i wanted were not congruent with me. I was not congruent with the image she had of someone who she would fuck or be with. She was a super christian woman who loved god and dressed preppy. We had nothing in common, no emotional connection other than we were both had similar majors that's it. That image she had in her mind of a man she wanted wasn't me.

We have all heard the saying "birds of a feather flock together". Have you noticed the women you like all have something in common with you. When you connect with someone after all what your doing is finding shared interests. The women you like have to be similar tooo you in some way shape or form.

Even when opposites attract they gradually start becoming similar. Maybe you have or haven't seen this but i have countless times. A preppy white girl and a thug black dude start dating. At first your like WTF how are they dating they have nothing in common. Then over time she starts to dress more urban and he starts to dress more preppy. They begin to become congruent to each others image of attractive.

NO TRUE RATING SYSTEM

Just as I said earlier about what she desired wasn't me the same thing applies with PUAS and WOMEN. Your 10 and my 10 probably look a lot different. Whats CONGRUENT with me is not CONGRUENT with you. The girls you find attractive are the ones most congruent to you. Its been proven that you are more attracted on a psychological level that are attracted to men like you. You fit, your congruent to each other. This is an idea that a PUA named Poeticallyskuac talks about i 100% agree with it you cannot accurately rate women because we all are attracted to different things. Sometimes a a girl is aesthetically pleasing but shes not your type.

Congruence and Connection

This finally leads us to how congruence can MAKE YOU BETTER. If you like a certian type of girl it will be much easier to get said girl by becoming congruent to men they like. Now you can dress like them, act like them, and mimic them. That's we well all do we are systematically becoming more congruent with naturals. But specifically if you like rocker chicks...become a rocker guy. In addition to just the look you have to be able to share interests with the women. Every relationship is formed out of some congruent value. Me and my best friend became friends because we both shared the same congruent interest madden nfl. When people say "we have alot in common" they are basically saying we are congruent. If you are congruent with each you are connecting and you sprinkle some sexual tension in their and VWAHLAAA you have a seduction

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2013 3:55 am 
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Today I struggled with sexual state and kino. I honestly didnt feel the horniness its kinda a scumbag mindset i gotta get into

#1 went direct to get AA handled
-exited early

#2 went direct to get AA handled
-exited early

#3 i actually was attracted to went direct. she didnt hook.
- I noticed some puas will just keep talking and keep having a conversation ima try this tommorow

Kino and sexual state are important..or else your just having small talk

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:21 am 
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got some approaches
#1 didnt stand close enough

#2 wasnt flirty enough

#3 went direct on a cute blond HB, she hit me with a confused ass look. she then showed me the stuff in the store. I tried to escalate by standing closer but she walked away i think it was making her feel awk. Gotta smile on the open

teachable points
always escalate because if not its just small talk

Men will do anything for vagina. The vag can litterally ruin your life in two ways. 1) you can spend your whole youth chasing material things to get you more vagina but still end up being a nice guy. After the girls have had there fun with all the bad boys they come too you, you wasted your youth obtaining objects that ultimately didnt get you pussy 2) you can be one of those lucky guys who has vagina but you spend your youth trying to please vagina and not working on your life. This guy lost his future because pussy was more important than work.

All blowouts can be traced from neediness or desperation. If you remove those traits you cannot be blown out.

I ultimately want fucks and fuck buddies no relationships!!!!

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