Had a bit of a mare this weekend and wondering how to recover. Basically finally got this girl back to mine on Saturday and things were flowing nicely. Bit of sexual build up, which led to me going down on her. She pulls me up to her and I can she wants to fuck, good right? Wrong. I had unprotected sex a few weeks ago and am still awaiting the blood tests back. 

So I say to her look, I want to have sex with you right now but I can't. She asks why and like a dumb ass I tell her - my mate who is great with women tells me i should have packaged this better, I was thinking truthfulness was the best policy. But now I look like someone who just fucks about while I was gaming her. Truth is i couldn't tell if she was interested and I had another opportunity so I took it. 

As you can imagine she looked pretty disappointed, she asks if even though I can't I do actually want to and I say of course I do, but I am not willing to pass something on just because I can't control myself. So fine no sex, she stayed for the night and a good portion of the next day, so she didn't run, good news. However I can't get over the fact that I might have blown this one massively. 

What should I do to pull this one back. Asked her out yesterday and she did respond and say she couldn't make it but no response there after, got the feeling she was drawing away from me a bit. So Freeze out until the weekend when I am headed to a party maybe and then invite her along?? My mate says I should wait a while and then get in touch and explain myself a bit better to her. Not sure about that.

Not sure why you're being such a big pussy about this... Unless you have symptoms or fucked a prostitute, you're worrying too much.

Anyway, freeze her out until you get back the test results (which I assume will give you a clean bill of health). Then casually start talking to her again and bring up the results.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

You can fuck with a condom even if you have AIDS and it won't matter. She won't catch it. I don't know why you'd have to wait for a blood test just to have PROTECTED sex.

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History my man, had a condom split on me twice