how do you do it right?

I'm seeing someone, she's great but somehow i feel like she doesnt value things enough and doesnt put in enough effort. I always hear everyone talking about "see other women".

I followed the advice and met someone a good week ago, at first i didnt seem like she was interested but since i ignored her she's been going beserk on the texting.

It's nice to recieve all the attention, but somehow i know the new one is going to want more (and is willing to give me more as well . One is not putting in enough effort and the other one is brand new. It feels like a new opportunity and then again it feels like cheating. How do you guys actually manage seeing multiple women without cheating on all of them ? How do you keep em sharp without cheating?

The point of dating multiple women at the same time is to keep you sane and not get needy or over/emotional with the girl you are dating until you become exclusive with the one you really like.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

let them both know that you see other girls. Its just what you do. They either need to understand that. If they cant then they should not be with you. Believe me they rarely leave. It also leads to you being some one of value and they want what others have. I do it all the time and usually run with about 3 girls at once. 2 there's competitions but with 3 its just what you do.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Women are like Pokemon, gotta catch 'em all.

I used to feel like it was cheating as well, but after I started to be 100% honest and open about seeing multiple women, that feeling went away.

A vast majority of people who see multiple women at one time get into trouble because they lie about it and miss-lead the women into believing something that won't happen. Being honest and open takes away that "This is wrong feeling"

If they ask "Are you seeing other women" just tell them
"I am talking to a few other women, but I also like you. If thats too much I understand. We can be friends"

If they ask "Where are you going tonight" Dont lie.
"I am going out with my friend Jessica to the bar."

and even though it goes against every AFC belief I have ever had, It somehow actually works better for your game to date multiple women, and be open about it..

You come off as less needy, they think your more attractive, and you actually get to pick the one you want. (not the one that wants you)

I hope this post makes sense. Good Luck bro!

-AFCME

I used to think this way about a month ago. Then the girl I really wanted bailed due to her anxiety and commitment issues and now I am in a relationship with the girl that was supposed to keep me sane.

I think that this information is the best.

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Dubli