Gentlemen of the forum, here's the juice.

Lately I've dated this HB9 for a short while but after our last date I just froze her out completely cause she was unresponsive during our dates. I said screw it and just gave up with her.

Last week she invited me to a gig but I had to flake her at the last minute cause another HB had promised me a better time (t'was good ). Apparently word got out fast and I think a friend of mine told her why I didn't attend the event.

Fast-forward to yesterday when I met this HB9 again at a casual party. Two things happened there:

1) She indirectly told me to ask her out again. At this point I was really considering it cause she was "back" to her "oh damn I wanna bang you real bad" self.
2) I overheard her say that after last week gig she met with her ex and got off with him. There is also the probability that they'll get back together.

Surprisingly the latter stung a lot, especially after I had decided to get back with her. This is where I ask for your help, my dear learned men: (1) Is this chick trying to pull a fast one on me? (2) Am I over-analysing it here or did she go back to her ex cause I went with another girl. I wouldn't blame her there.

Thanks! Just need some clarification to decide what to do next.

Why do you think she was unresponsive during your dates with the HB9? Did you try escalating? What were her IOIs?

If she likes you, then there's a good chance she's trying to play games with you -- to get you jealous. In this case, you can proceed cautiously in asking her out again.

If she doesn't like you, then what you heard may be true and you should just move on.

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She obviously is still interested in you, so use that to your advantage. Try to get another date but don't put hardly any energy into any aspect of the process. Call or text her one night and tell her you are bored and you want to hang out with her. If she gives some BS then don't reply and freeze her out. If you do end up going out with her, talk about the other girl you hooked up with. Be aloof, cocky, and borderline assholish in your behavior.

If you try to do anything else this girl will just try to draw you into her fucked up frame with shit tests and manipulation, then stand you up while she goes and has sex with her ex.

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I would be straight up with her, and tell her that I couldn't go because another girl asked me out and promised me a good time. For real, she isn't going to get pissed. Only jealous and will want you even more. Done this many times always with awesome results

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Solid advice guys, much appreciated!
Guess I'll arrange a meet up then.
She was boring, barely put an effort in conversations, didn't respond well to escalation, and little IOIs. On the other hand when we're at parties or in public she's all into me with heavy kino.

See when I hear this, I'm more tempted to believe you're being played and that she in fact isn't attracted to you. No worries, you can still play her games but personally, I wouldn't even want to touch that with a ten foot pole.

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