Okay an ex co worker of mine, asked me out on a date when i started speaking to her at the weekend.
I called her up a couple days later telling her i can do this day, and we finally arranged to meet for coffee (not my idea) today.
Anyway i was waiting around for forty minute, i called her twice and texted her once asking if she nearby, and her phone was off. I then got a text from her saying "hey i told you that i will call you, i've moved yesterday evening so i have to do many things. have a nice day "

I haven't texted her back yet, it could be a genuine mistake but I'm feeling tempted to freeze her, she is a hb9 and despite a slight language barrier I'm sure she messed me around.
Should i.

A) play laid back and brush off the flaking incident.

B)Confront her, saying "I'm pretty sure, we said that we would meet today etc.

C) freeze her out and ignore her

D) a combination of A and B

E) moo


Im just curious if fellow PUA's would use this situation to challenge her or just play laid back, personally there are plenty more fish in the sea and i see this as a bit of a red flag but I've got bigger things to be concerned about in my life at the moment.

cut her out... that is straight up disrespectful. She doesn't deserve your time anymore.

Or what could be a quick, sarcastic response to the text she sent me ?

What you need to do is not send her any more texts or calls. Just wait for her to call you, seriously. That's what she's said anyway. If you burn bridges with angry texts or calls - then that serves no purpose. If you play laid back, it's a little weak too. So option C definitely.

It's not about the fact that she lied (which she probably has), you just don't want to come off as desperate or needy. You need to show her that she's nothing, that it's no thing that she blew you off, you have other options and a good life anyway. So... freeze her out completely for now.

In my experience, what will happen next is - she won't get in touch with you for a few days. You'll go on with your life, you'll probably even forget about her, get some new numbers over the weekend or something.

Then all of a sudden you'll have a "HEY how are you doing (name) XXX" sort of text, or phone call, and she'll try and play it cool with you - hoping that you'll rearrange a new date. Or, you can just play laid back -then-, and not bother rearranging a date, so that she's wondering what has now happened in your life, and drive her crazy.

Good luck whatever you do, dude, let us know how it goes!

Hear what you do to drive her nuts. Ready. Tell her hey no big deal and that you waited and as you did you met some one new while at the coffee house. She really sexy and you 2 totally hit it off. but thats a little out there.

I would play it off and also let her make the next move. Hb9's can smell desperateness from a mile away.

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It's a shit test. Be non-reactionary. Freeze her out a bit, then if she doesn't contact you first, act like nothing happened the next time you contact her. Basically give her a second chance.

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What a cunt... Cut her out completely. You shouldn't even be thinking about giving her a second chance. That shit should not stand well with anyone that has respect for himself.

NEXT!

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Nice to know i made the right decision, i am cutting her off, she is trying to make me her puppy, but i can smell this one from a mile off. If she is apologetic in the future, i might engage in some conversation with her, but this a red flag.
plenty more fish in the sea