Background on this girl. Got her number through facebook, asked her out to dinner and she said maybe next weekend, blah blah blah. I said "excuses are like butt holes, everyone has them and they all stink". That was pretty much it. This was before I knew anything about PUA stuff. This was back in January.

This girl is gorgeous and seems like fun from what I know. I still have her number (doubt she remembers me). How would you go about re-opening this? Or is it a lost cause and I should just let it be?

Did she not reply to that message? If she didn't, I'd personally forget about it. She wasn't finding an excuse... She was telling you to fuck off. Your best bet is to work on your game and hope you bump into her again by accident.

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No reply from that message. It was worth a shot...

Caveman last ditch effort:

Message. "I found your number while I was cleaning out my wallet, I can't remember where we met". Ask her what she looks like and, then ask her if we fucked, or made out at ____club!

Why be afraid of what she will say? Those who attracted to you will react positively! And those who don’t aren't worth listening to anyway. So fuck it no harm no foul.

Naturally after doing this for a while you end up with a shitload of random numbers, so it's a legitimate question!

3 possible outcomes;

1. Positive-denial "No I wasn't her, who are you?" (Be prepared for banter)
2. Negative- "Fuck off Asshole!" (prepare recovery) "Obviously I thought you were someone else, my bad lol".
3. Back to ground zero, same place you are now! Looking for other girls!

Zero effort = Zero result.

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