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Did this, pretty funny actually. But i did open some sets as well. So a mixture of everything i guess. Even though the opening of the sets did dry out after a while. But it was some good fun.

So I've attempted this challenge twice in the passed week, altho I don't consider either time a success I can feel myself becoming more outgoing with every attemped interaction.
Rly great mission, I plan on continuing this every chance I get til I feel confortable enough to start a convo w absolutely anyone.

I really like that "magic pill" idea. It's simple yet effective in the fact that it gets someone in the right mindset for approaching women. A lot of people just throw you with the wolves and expect you to get over everything. I understand the concept but for people who are terrible at it, that just scars them. Thanks for the post

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I have done the newbie mission but for only one day, and I was working on it for 3 days. The first was good the mission actually worked and I saw that girls were actually interested in me by just saying hi. I said hi to every girl I could say hi to even hb8-10s. I was even able to have a conversation with two girls that I didn't know for a long period of time.

The second day I really didn't do the mission. I did this by choice because I made a stupid notion in my mind that I couldn't do it again. The third day a girl in my General Conditioning class actually came up to me and was running game on me. I know that if I continue to work this mission I will continue to get over my AA, because the AA was decreasing the first day I did this mission. I will do this mission again and will post some improvements that has happened, and I will get over what is in my mind and stop being a little bitch and man up, just like the first day I did this mission. So you will hear from me very soon. Thanks for giving us this mission CHIEF and I will complete it

I tried this one day last week thinking it would be easy as I've done something similar on a confidence course before. On the course we were sent out in pairs at lunch time and told to ask strangers for their name, where they work and what they do. I got 6 on that occasion before handing over the pad to the other guy so he could try to approach someone. He didn't.

Anyway, my newbie mission was not a success. I had to go into town this one day so decided to do the mission, although the day was not the best for it. It was raining and town was full of women holding their umbrellas down over their faces (literally over their faces, they couldn't even see where they were going) which didn't help, and the total number of women in town must have been about a 10th of what it usually is. Anyway, I only managed to approach 3. One was a woman in her 50s front of me in a queue, another was a shop assistant (HB6-7), and I can't even remember the 3rd. I suppose I should look at this from the point of view that I approached 3 and nobody ignored me.

I'll try this again, hopefully many times, until it's second nature.

i tried this on an early sunday, while walking the dog. not much people out at all. kills 2 birds with one stone. ive only manage to say hello or hi to 4 women. most people dont give eye contact or are looking at my dog. some would just look at there phones, even though i know nothing is going on there phones. i should have just said hello to them anyway. i know. POSTERS SHOULD STOP ASKING IF THEY SHOULD. one was a decent looking asian girl. i saw her incoming while i was sitting down. we pretty much said hi at the same time. the next one was a fat chick that wasnt very good looking. i knew she wanted me to talk to her. she slowed down and stopped and i figured she wanted me to say something. i said hi and all she did was look at me. i continued walking. next one was a women that was about 30ish+ or something, deff an older women than i. she noticed my dog running trying to kill squirrels, and said they like doing that. i said hi and agreed. the last one was when i was headed back home and she had a dog too. she made eye contact with me and i said hi, my dog want to kill hers. she stopped and i pulled my dog away. i said something and she laughed in a good way.

out of the 4 only 1 did not answer back. the fat ugly one. the better looking one did respond back. i only wanted to say hi to women and not men. i will say hi to the ones that are not looking next time. JUST DO IT.

went out again to do this. i said hello or hi a few more times than before. got around 6 of them out. most people said hello back, only 1 did not. theres always one. even gave out a compliment to a dude. he had a sick mustache.

Well I did the newbie mission cause Im new to Pickup. What I realised was that the best place to do this was at the food court cause I realised that when i say hi to people that are passingby they usually ignore me. What i found ironic was that some of the ladies i felt attracted to were actually saying hi back while the most of the ladies i werent attracted to didnt. Two of them smiled at me and one (HB8 said how're you doing). However most of the ladies i said hi to didn't respond with anything.

So, I went out and did the Newbie mission today and I actually had a lot of fun talking to a lot of random people. Now, I'm the quiet type, so I initially had some reservations about randomly saying "hello" to people, but after the first few girls (not really lookers), I went on the prowl, talking to women of all ages and shapes, cracking jokes and also getting some weird looks.

Personally, I don't care about the weird look part. The awkwardness faded away after the first few ladies and I ended up enjoying going to random stores and trying to start conversations with people. Today's highlight was when a HB8 and I were standing in the women's shoe section of a store, looking at some boots.

I walk next to the girl and take note of her great interest in a pair of boots. After some silence, I grab said boots and feign interest, saying: "Do you think any of these'll look good on me?"

She looks at me funny and busts out laughing. I laugh along with her and say some other things and part ways.

Yup, I know it's not a number, but it certainly made me chuckle a bit and definitely made me realize that anxiety is stupid. Talk to whoever you find interesting, or whenever you're bored.

I'll go out and do more of this when I get back to school. It's like exercise now - from my point of view - so I'll keep on working my way up and trying different things. Sure, I got weird ass looks from several ladies, but hey, I thought it was funny.

Thanks bros.

wow! haha
Just read this the other night and thought id give it a bash seen I was going to get stuff at the mall.
I was on my own, think thats deffenitly the way to go? Makes you look less suspect haha

But yeah cheers for that one! need to work on a routine though. So I was just trying to drain my fear out a little.

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Saying "Hi!" to everyone in the room was a good social experiment and I really smiled and everyone started reacting a lot friendlier towards me. I notice the same thing on the street, because a true smile gave back a natural good reaction.
All my friends started also getting along me. I started making lots of good friends faster. In a short period of time people changed their reactions when I was approaching them. I saw lots good of changes of the gestures of them. When I had said "Hi!" to 10 people the overall estimate and conceptions of me changed a lot the other people had of me. The more I smiled the more I saw the results. In a short period of time I had made a big progress.
I also bought new clothes and the things started getting a lot different. In the store I chose out the ones which brought some attention. Honestly, women liked me more.

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i am real newbie to the PUA

firstly, i think that this mission is a good way to get into the game.

I tried it as i was walking through the supermarket, and along the street. Generally, i will look at the person i'm about to speak to. I wait till they look into my direction, thats when i make eye contact and say "hi, hows it going?"

alot of times, girls and people don't look into your direction. They don't make eye contact, they are generally looking straight ahead, in their own world, looking at a particular product. I feels odd to just jump into their world and say "hi!"

what are ur comments on this? how would u go about approaching people when they don't give eye contact?

This mission is easily hundreds of times harder than it seems.

People have this way about them when they're walking in a mall. They give you and everyone else around them a WIDE berth; It's like they're intentionally trying to avoid you, and they are. In order for you to actually "just say hi" to ANYONE and for it to register, you essentially have to make a beeline for someone, walk over, and actively TRY to get their attention. even then most ignore you. worse still are the ones who just look scared, or creeped out by you, invading their space.
After one quick walk through the outside portion of the mall, not finding ANY potential targets (that's another thing, the makeup of mall-goers is roughly 40% families, 25% couples, 15% highschoolers, 10% girls walking in packs, 7% random dudes walking around, and only a measly 2% of girls that are on their own/ approachable), and not a single person coming even remotely close to me, I was already ready to give up and go home, feeling only more depressed at my own failure, (and after all that WORK I had put into my outfit, midset and confidence too..) then, I saw her.

It's amazing how, even under the BEST of circumstances, we can find an infinite number of excuses to not approach another person. She was dancing and doing cartwheels outside next to the fountain and music emitter (which was playing only the SAPPIEST love songs on the planet). simply happy, and unconcerned with the outside world. I thought her impossible to approach a thousand times, but forced myself to walk in her general direction anyways. I panicked and sat on a nearby bench instead. I collected my thoughts and swallowed my pride and tried again. I simply got closer and closer until she was forced to take notice of me. I smiled and said "hi".

As it turned out she was a Muslim that didn't believe in romantic relationships outside of arranged marriages, or even shaking hands, but she was also very sweet and warm, and loved talking with people. I said goodbye to her and that I hoped fate would send her my way someday, but really, I wasn't concerned with her anymore; what she gave me was more valuable then a hug or kiss or fuck, she renewed hope.

I walked all over the mall several times. pickings were slim, and confidence in anything 'working' was slimmer. I felt unarmed. "Hi. " -now what? So, I went and picked up a pen and notepad. One of the fleeting bits of info I'd acquired from Style's "The Game" stuck out: cold reading. I didn't really know how to do it, but it felt more prepared to have a REASON to approach a random stranger in a mall, rather than just 'Hi, nice weather we're having today, eh?'.
"Hi, can you help me with a project for sociology? It's an exercise in reading people based on their handwriting" would be the order of the day.

I sat on a bench next to a random older (like, early thirties) blonde outside of the dillards, and gathered my courage for a good 5 minutes before asking if she could help me out. small and very neat.

suddenly things didn' seem so bleak. I started noticing how random girls would smile at me every now and again. I'd smile back. most of my "Hi's' still went unnoticed or unheard, but every once in a while I would find a suitable taget, and the game was on.

Kayleigh was a cute 26yo redhead on her first shift as "Mall train conductor" and she gave me a free ride so we could talk; she didn't have time to write in my pad after, so she gave me her business card with her cell # so we could do it later..

alyssa was a stout girl, and a bit apprehensive, but after a minute of explanation I got her to participate, after I read hr for a bit, I asked her to put down her # on there so I could call her later if I had questions for her later.. she agreed.

the worst part of the day came near the end when a girl had to be 'rescued' from me by I'm assuming her mother to the restroom... I suppose attempting to keep stride with someone who looked like they were ready to head home was a mistake...

I did this today, from around 5 to around 8, and I'd say it was a successful day

Now the only problem that remains is the only problem that was always there: 'Whaddo I do now?' :/

I'm 23 years old, am decent looking, have good confidence in myself, and I genuinely DO enjoy talking to people... but I've never been very good with women. I'm a virgin. had several 'close calls' but, in the end, something always stopped it from happening JUST in time... I've only ever had 1 girlfriend (from a few years ago when I lived on-campus), and she dumped me in a week. I can open ok I guess (a by-product of me being a server, I'm sure..), but after... I run out of ish to say, and often times make things awkward... worst of all, I have no idea what I'm suppossed to be doing though.

That's what I'm hoping you guys can help me with. Do I call these girls? text? how long do I wait? 3 days? 2? till next weekend? what do I SAY?? Do I ask them out on a proper date? how would I even lead into that? what will I even do once I get there? Guys, help me. please.

Where can I find more missions like this? If this is the first newbie one I want the second. I loved it