Ah I'm very worried that I'm starting to get oneitus.
Me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago, it was after she had a close death in her family, and we haven't been seen each other for a couple of weeks due to being in what was then a LDR. Well to summarise, i was close to breaking up with her before, as i felt like i was putting too much attention, but now i find myself thinking about her, especially as it was her birthday yesterday, so i sent her a message, apart from that I've kept away contact, even the break up came across as mutual and was mostly pleasant.

Lately I've been going through a tough time, as a friend of mine died and i have a injury which is a constant annoyance, i have gone out sarging and been lucky a few times, also i know some girls are in to me, but i can't help having this feeling of gloom. Ive been here before and i know its mostly a mental thing and that trying to go back with her is not going to help anything, but i would appreciate advice, or any hints, exercises i can undertake to get over this hump.

Thank you

Cut all contact with ex.
Get an intresting life
Do sports
Find new intresting ladies.
Meet alot with friends..
That's about it.

After i posted this, i kind of just had a realisation that life is good at the moment actually very good. Its just everything in the last couple of months came to a climax so i went all sentimental and soppy and shit. I think its a strength to not focus on problems or things that can be perceived as problems when you are down. To be honest its only because i can't have her and not part of her little club. yes she was hot, but the attitude she had made me lose a lot of attraction for her.

sounds like my ex. I don't want 'her' I want her 32G chest.

good advice, thank you.