Hi all, does someone knows what decent reactions are when the girl sees beggars and homeless and says she really pitties them. Dont get me wrong, I pity them too and give money to the salvation army but I dont feel a deep hurt. I guess she was (beside truthfull also) testing me and i guess i failed because i more or less: I reacted that everbody has his way. I guess she thinks this was in that situation to egoistic. Iam afraid she doesnt trust me anymore as a potential farther for her children.

I guess I wrote it too big but you get the message. Thanks for the replies in advance.

You didn't lose her "trust." You have an opinion, just as everyone else does. Now you aren't allowed to change your opinion about beggars because then you'd be changing for her, and no girl likes a boy without a backbone. Also, show that you don't give a shit what she thinks of your opinion. You tell her that "everyone has his own opinion, and if you can't respect mine, too fucking bad you fucking cunt." Every girl likes a boy who stands his ground in defiance.

And seriously, how do you go from indifference of beggars to bad fatherly figure? You two smoking crack or what?

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Oh and feel free to throw in a little game playing. Next time you see a poor son of a bitch in the streets, give him a buck and when he says thanks, walk away without saying "you're welcome."

She'll ask you why you did that if you don't care about them. Tell her you can be compassionate sometimes, but you still don't give two shits about them. This will make her believe you just put up a bad boy image but deep down you're a good guy. Best shit to win a girl's heart.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

damn, i keep forgetting that. must be the crack