Here is the text convo...

Back story: We talked about sex a few times, and one night she said "Your all about the sex stuff" (so i made it a point to not bring it up again)

*She is out of town, and I was heading to Chicago (not to meet her, but for other reasons)

HER: You still working?
ME: Nope, on my way. How is Chicago?
HER: COLD!!
ME: Forgot my jacket. Keep me warm?
HER: Of course.
ME: Good. Do i need to bring a blanket?
HER: Nope! We can just cuddle by the fire.
ME: Good call.
HER: Naked, on a rug, with wine and candle light.
ME: ... Be there in fifteen minutes...
(She didn't text back until 20 minutes later)
HER: Your late

ME: And your making it hard for me to drive.
HER: Sit back and let me drive.
ME: You sure you can? My car is a stick and not many people know how to drive it properly.
HER: Trust me.... I know what I'm doing
ME: Well... If you insist...
HER: I do insist... Very much so...
ME: Be my guest. but I hope your as good as your talk when we are back in Ohio. I would hate to get worked up over nothing...

NO TEXT BACK!!

Then 3 hours later i get a text

HER: How is Chicago?

(I didn't text her back)

What are your thoughts on this?

Well clearly reading this, you couldn't believe your luck, and it showed! At what point did you convey that she was being presumptuous by expecting a fuck just because she wanted one?
Who told her she had permission to take your clothes off? You don't put out for just anyone. Why are women always treating you like a sex object? You're a person too!!!!
Wow, a naked woman! Suspending all rational thought!
Of course not! "I hope your as good as your talk?" You're basically saying "I know you've explicitly said you want to shag me, but it's hard for me to believe it's really true!"
Don't get so excited by the prospect of sex. Play it cool. A guy TELLS a woman they're going to get naked when she arrives at his place? What kind of reaction will that get? Why should you immediately go "yeah great! Exceeding the speed limit as we speak?!"

YOU are the man. It's YOUR duty to keep HER warm. Don't forget your role in society.
Ummmm WHAT? Why would you even ask that? It conveys uncertainty and lack of confidence. Next time, you TELL HER that you're bringing a fucking blanket.
Ignoring HER advances? Digging yourself a hole. Play hard to get... Tell her "Haha, you wish. But maybe, we'll see depending on how good you "
Don't manwhore yourself. She needs to work for you and you need to show her you don't fuck with just anyone. Also, you gave her the impression that she'd be the one in command during sex. WRONG. Men take control. Put her back in her place and remind her she's the subordinate.
AND WHY DID YOU NOT TEXT HER BACK??? Her texting you back was essentially her apologizing for not having gotten back to you earlier! Maybe she didn't know what to say to your last text, maybe she was busy... Either way, NEVER hand out a punisher when she gives you attention!

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