So I met this chick at a Halloween event this year and we talked all night, I threw negs, kino moderately, all the good shit, failed a kiss close twice but kept it cool. We've hung out a couple of times since then at clubs (we both kind of do our own thing but always find eachother at somepoint) and we've had dinner together, she's constantly flirting, and challenging me, poking fun, more good shit. Im tryin to swing this towards a less platonic level But I was talking to her on FB today and this is the convo....
Completely open to constructive critisism, Im pretty new to the game and Im sick of being the "Nice guy"

ME:Sup cutie.

HB:Nothin' much:).

ME:Well arent you a boatload of fun .

HB:This is what happens when you waste your life away on facebook.lol..

ME:Or live in the middle of nowhere!.

HB:Hey now we have stuff to do out here like hunting some squirrel and burying dead bodies its alright. lol.

ME:Hahaha hunting is fun but Idk about the burying people part, sounds a bit creeper.

HB:Yeah I know according to SOMEBODY I have that effect.

ME:lol only when ur talkin about burying dead bodies or stalkin me on my wall.

HB:I am not stalkin' anyone you are!.

ME:O.o I didnt know I was stalking anyone....

HB:Well all I know is somebody couldn't get enough of so called creeper:P.

ME:You seem pretty sure Im interested O.o.

HB:Well I can still continue to go dancin' alone then can't I?.

ME:Yea you could, or you could quit playin hard to get .

HB:Why would you wanna ruin the fun? .

ME:And what fun would that be O.o.

HB:I don't know.

ME:Uh huh, if you say so lol.

HB:You never know the fun could end up with more midgets. lol.

ME:Or hanging out with my Uncle and his life partner tonight, lol they're going to a gay club =_=.

HB:You need to go. Some culture is good for you. =D.

ME:lol Im going so I can hang out with my uncle, but as for the culture, I have no interest whatsoever.

HB:Tell them to go to (insertgaybar)

ME:you should come with!.

HB:I want to! I'm hoping my paycheck is not shitty since they gave me 3 days off last week fingerscrossed.

ME:if you arent coming out Im finding something else to do lol.

HB:I'm sure you will .

ME:yea, Im comfortable with my uncle and his but Im not comfortable being surrounded like that lol.

HB:Its not that big of a deal just b/c their gay doesn't mean you have to beI do it all the time.

ME:Yea I know, Its just not my element and a night spent dancing with/talking to straight women sounds MUCH more appealing loloh god I just realized something I never thought of...........

HB:Well you should be just fine then my point is be what you are but don't drag others through shitaka my ex.

ME:Gay men have lots of girlfriends........dont drag others through shit? what do you mean?.

HB:I'm talking about my ex lol so are you going to be a foamo for the night?.

ME:lol probably, I mean being in a gay bar, theres practically ZERO competition.

HB:That's what you think.

ME:compared to any other given bar in _____? shiiiit.

HB:ha ha you don't think there's other guys in there just like you?.

ME:lol they're nothing like me, theres only one alpha.

HB:Trust me I had to put up with alot of them

ME:They aint shit compared to me.

HB:Why is your ego the size of Canada?lol.

ME:So it matches my dick .

HB:Compensating much? not much much but much too much:).

ME:Compensate? I dont even know the meaning of that word .

HB:your a dorklord still.

ME:hahahaha AND? Bitches love dorks!
8:23am
HB:shut up :)Its too bad my older sis is not single you would lover her
HB:love her. ha my bad
HB:Well I have to go to work. Bye

friendzoned

Damn, maybe Ill turn her into a wing-girl then. She's not really competitive though and I kinda think she's gay and doesnt know it, when we go to the club she doesnt seem to mind me hitting on other girls and its been that way since the beginning.

shes giving me vibes that she wants a threesome

also try to bang her, see what happens

It's just a shit test. Overlook it and proceed.

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Haha that would be sweet, Ill see if I can get them to come out and see if I cant land em in a Hotel room
So its good I ignored it completely? And wasnt sure if it was a shit test considering the last time we talked I told her it was her turn to get the drinks and she mentioned she may be short on cash, this in its self could be a compliance test but Ill see how it goes tonight if she ends up coming out.

May God be with you.

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How I see it is that she's certainly flirting back, but I think she knows she has you wrapped around her finger. I'm not often into advising complicated shit, but this strikes me as a time jealousy may be highly useful.

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Keep going homie, this is good banter. Don't read too much into it until she shuts you down in person. Just watch out for qualifying yourself too much. You don't need to reinforce that you are alpha or need to prove anything


HB:ha ha you don't think there's other guys in there just like you?.

ME:lol they're nothing like me, theres only one alpha.

HB:Trust me I had to put up with alot of them

ME:They aint shit compared to me.

HB:Why is your ego the size of Canada?lol.

ME:So it matches my dick .

HB:Compensating much? not much much but much too much:).

ME:Compensate? I dont even know the meaning of that word .

HB:your a dorklord still.


I mean it isn't TERRIBLE, but you could have went another way with it. At this point she was like "ah, he is trying to prove something to me, let me play with him now", and that is why you got the sister remark.

BUT you are still okay. Just watch out and catch yourself if you qualify to her because it can set yourself up for more shit tests, it is like feeding her material for her to use at her disposal if she pleases.

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