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Rather than sit here and say I have some unreal opening line, I want to practice openers repeatedly until I master them.
For this, I want to buy a hidden recording device so I can replay every approach I do and pinpoint what was good/bad/etc.
Anyone else try this and thought it was a smart idea? Also, where can I find some type of recording device? I hope this doesn't sound creepy as I'm not secretly making sex tapes or anything, I just want to be able to critique my approaches until I have it mastered.
I figure your actual opening line is basically irrelevant, it's the next 2 mins of convo that is much more important.
Any tips on approaching (not openers) and where to find a recording device would be appreciated.
Thanks.
Your post is a little contradictory. First, you say you want to practice openers, then you say they are irrelevant. But if that's your opinion, why would you want to practice them?
As for recording, I think this is a bad idea. What if you actually get past the opener, and she spots or feels that hidden recording device under your clothing? Also, I don't think it's very ethical to record conversations with people without them knowing; you're basically invading their privacy. You don't need a recording device anyway. Just pay attention to her facial expressions and body language when you say something to a girl, that will give you all the info you need. Plus, paying attention during rather than after the interaction, will give you the benefit of being able to adapt on the spot.
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