So last night i was at a friends party, and i was running game pretty hard. I hooked up with one HB8 in a dimly lit corner out of nowhere, was dancing with all the girls in the main room, and they were all jostling my dick. shit was real nice.

Later on, i start talking to this one HB8 i knew from one of my classes last year who i knew wanted it back then. We play some beirut and the girl who is throwing the party has some sick tree house where people go to smoke and do whatever. I say i wasn't trying to make anything happen, but we should honestly check out the tree house since i hadn't seen it. Honestly there was a bit of inner child coming out so it wasn't a total lie. She rolls with it, and were up there and she winds up sitting cowgirl style on my lap facing me. Several times she comes in because she wants to kiss me, but then kinda jerks her head back cuz of this internal conflict shit.

She then tells me about how she was really into me last year, over the summer, and even a week ago she would have been dtf, but there was some other dude she really cared about. I didn't really know what to say so i offered what made sense to me, which was to simply not tell him. After talking for about 20 mins she recommends we just get it out of our system but don't go past making out.

We do that and i have her inn my arms pinned on the wall. she dropped to her knees 3 times pulling at my pants, only to come instantly back up. obviously there was some serious inner conflict going on.

My question is. who has been here before and who knows how to get them over that? you responses are much appreciated

I haven't run into LMR personally, but from what I have read, stop for a minute, fluff, make her more comfortable with you, and resume. Basically she is just trying not to feel like a slut. After a while, try and progress again. Rinse and repeat. tone it down, then tone it up.

I'm also willing to bet the guy she has feelings for, the one that is the reason for not progressing with you is a fabrication. She would have fooled around with you until a week ago cuz of this guy? sounds like she made that up on the spot, cuz she needed you to talk her into doing stuff.

Its not a fabrication. i know for a fact that what she said was true. she cant lie for shit. as for the slut part, she didnt feel like one, and she wouldnt because i've known her for a long time. Trust me on this, she didnt feel like a slut, and she didnt in fact have feelings for this guy.

My question is still, how do i get them over that? I feel like i did well given the circumstances, but i'd like to be more prepared the next this might occur.

It's either Last Minute Resistance or Anti Slut Defense... possibly you should you use a BF destroyer. I think if you googled these terms you would realize what you need to do, I don't think it's so complicated that you can't find the answer through FAQ.

I've read a lot, haven't sarged much, but I do have a bit of natural experience with girls, and I understand the theories. So don't look at my word as expertise. I'm just trying to be a helpful member on the board

Unfortunately there are some girls out there who won't fuck you.

However, what you did was fine. There were a few things you could improve on. First she said you're not going past LMR. Look who's in control here; she is. She decided how far to go. Not you. You must be willing to lose her. In the heat of the moment you just want it, but you have take a step back and look at it objectively. A fine response to that would have been 60s "We are both adults. We will do whatever we are comfortable with" and continue. Or you could have just ignored her remark and continue. How aggressive we're you? Sounds like you could have been more dominant. Teat it all as a shit test at first. Dude seriously, this internal conflict shit, it's a little childish isn't it? She doesn't know what she wants. You do. Go for what you want without apologies. If she's so confused she might follow. Lead the interaction. YOU have to be responsible for whatever she does. If she was on her knees pulling down your pants you coulda said "Wait. Let me" and unzipped them. Now it's YOUR fault if she sucks your dick. She can now tell her friends "Well, it just happened he just pulled down his pants and his dick was just so amazing."

If the bullshit continues know for yourself when you've had enough. You can be persistent and have some fun, but if the whole thing goes nowhere then don't be afraid to walk away.

Thats great thanks man. i actually talked to the dude she had said she cared about and apparently they had hung out earlier that day and were trying to make something like a relationship happen. But what you said is totally right. i should have taken control of the situation and taken responsibility for whatever happened. Thanks a lot man, i'll make sure to work what you said into what i do.