Hi,

I'm in a situation where this girl is talking sexual (getting me turn on) and stuff, but I could tell that she is testing me. What's best to approach this situation if you want her to feel sexual as well?

I have a couple solutions but I like input on each. Here are 2 of my solutions:

1) To play along and try to make her feel sexual as well.

2. To ignore it so she will try harder. She will see that I'm not as easy as some of her past targets and if she is testing me, it will put me in a different light.

Some feedback on either of these approaches would be appreciated. Additional suggestions is even more appreciated. Thanks!

testing you sexually? What does that even mean? if she is being touchy to you and whispering that she wants to suck your dick, then all you have to do is take her home and fuck her asap before she thinks you are gay and move on..

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Because we have a friendship. In the past, I asked her out once and she was not interested. It's been a while since then and I feel like she is trying to get sexual to me to test if I still have the past intentions.

However, I want to turn her game around and work it for myself. Hope this made sense and that I can get some answers regarding how to do that (in lights of the 2 solutions I already have up).

If she's talking sexual with you, she might be willing but first testing to see just how easy you are. It's quite easy to play this game. Joke with her and keep her guessing... Best thing to do is to playfully reject her.

Some examples:
"Hmm, I donno if that's a good thing to be talking about... Don't want you to be wetting your panties at work."
"And why would I want that? Friends don't do that! "
"I could be the best... But not like you'll ever experience it "

Eitherway, two rules:
1) Never outright admit you're DTF
2) Never be serious in your conversation... Exception: you're talking about sex with a previous gf (NOT A BUNCH OF GIRLS) and how hot it was by giving concrete examples without going into details (e.g. you fucked in the park at midnight). This is to make her want to experience it with you.

Playfully rejecting her will only make her want you more.

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Thanks! You understand my situation.

So you're suggesting that by 'playfully rejecting her' she'll want you more. What if I just ignore her? What happens?

Ignoring her is the worst option (assuming you want to stick your penis in her vagina), because she'll actually think you want nothing to do with her or just think you're a pussy.

If she asks a question and you're unsure what to say, you can respond by saying you'll tell her another time when she's a good girl.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

And once she's put you in the pussy bucket, it's hard, if not impossible to get out of it... Like being friendzoned.

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Thanks! I see how this is true!!