I already know this girl and feel that she is interested in me so i decided to ask her out to eat on fb.




(me)Hey Bff! What's a girl like you do on weekends.
(her)nothing
haha you?
(me)honestly just like to go out be social, workout, and chill
(her)all i do is gym and work thats it
haha
(me)well there's so much i'd like to catch up with you:) we'll hangout on saturday
(her)saturrday?
whats saturday?
(me)...
its a festival downtown you gotta check it out(sarcasm)
(her)uh?
when and where
(me)mongolian grill downtown been wanting to go there for awhile
(her)theres a festival there?
(me)your slow
(her)thanks
(me)there is no festival i'm asking you to come eat with me at the mongolian grill at 5 on saturday
(her)ohhh
maybe i dunno depends what time i get off work at
the restaurant could be busy or could be dead haha
so which ever one it is depends on when i am off work
(me)(w/e its downtown im sure there will be something available)<----a misunderstood text on my part) and what time are you getting off work?
(her)most likely 3 or 4
should be no later
well i hope no late
later*
(me)ok you should send your phone number and ill text you around 430-5
(her)ok 250-819-0668
u dont have a black berry anymore do you?
(me)no i lost it on the bus lol
(her)oh dang
(me)got a iphone now
(her)lucky
(me)haha there so much better than shittyberries
(her)i know

You call her bff => fail imo.
The festival is rather weak too.. Try using party or something similar instead.
I miss a bit of a connection, that text you wrote you could have written with anybody of your friends imo?

Thx for the advice i said bff as a disqualifier because i know she has guys constantly messaging her on facebook, and it obvious she knows what they want. Other than that yea all failure wasn't playful at all built no connection ( built a connection with her when i last saw her) so i just decided just say it and ask her out

I still think saying Bff is a really bad disqualifier because it's still putting yourself in the friend zone. Best way is to let her have a good time around you but don't compliment or admit that you like her. Keep her wondering "Does he like me? because i like him". At the same time remember to seduce her because if your only playful she'll still see you as a friend. You need to show her that you can be romantic too. Best way is it have some romantic connection going on while being playful and disconnect it by being playful. She'll be wondering "why did he stop?" and will be wanting more. But that's just my suggestion. Figure out what works best for you. Good luck!

Check out Gambler's "Stealth attraction" for a better explanation!

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