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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 12:44 am 
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I always see posts about how you should let the girl sometimes start the conversations, especially when it comes to text messaging. However I've been thinking and to be honest I've noticed that this just doesn't usually happen with me. Very rarely will a girl be the one to start up a text conversation, it just doesn't seem to happen. I'm. It sure if they feel that you are supposed to start itor they have some aversion but I guess I. Asking is there any way to encourage girls to be the Initiator in conversations ever?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 1:49 am 
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You're not gaming them right.

Every weekend my phone gets blown up from girls with "What are you doing tonight?" "Come join my friends and I." "Come over." blah blah blah

It starts with the interaction, you need to get her to invest INTO YOU. You need to establish a frame early that she will be the one chasing.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 5:34 am 
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Well what specifically do you have to do to get them to invest in you? Because even girls that have a high interest level in me don't seem to start text interactions, even though they invest heavily in them once they are started.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:08 am 
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Read this for a better idea

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/252164

if you have any other questions lmk, I've adopted this style recently and I literally do nothing now but wait for my phone to blow up.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 7:49 am 
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I can try that, seems simple enough. Though i must say I'm a bit skeptical as I do the whole "text me your name" bit relatively often, and as of this moment I can't ever recall one of them texting me first.

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