I talked to this girl couple of times and bedded her few times as well. I thought we were heading towards LTR. I had made my intentions clear to her. During my last conversation with her, she was wondering why I do not drink, while every other guy from my age does. In addition, she said she likes her drink.

After the last meeting she started avoiding me. After the last meeting, I sent her a text message next day asking her Facebook id, she choose not to respond. After few days, I sent another message, asking her why she did not respond to my previous message. She responded back saying she is busy and would email when free. I never heard from her again.

After a gap of 2-weeks, I sent her another message with a joke. She responded back saying she would get back to me after 2-weeks. She got back to me after 2-weeks saying "things are not clicking, so that means we are not right for each other". I responded back saying "That's fine, No biggies, All the best". Of course, I was devastated.

So my question is, where did i make mistake or what could I have done differently? Should i have texted her or did any of my text message made me look needy?

Thanks for your response!

Ummm... Just by insisting on contacting her multiple times when she was avoiding you, I can tell you were probably too needy when you were with her. You invested too much emotionally and showed your cards early on. Always let a girl tell you how she feels first. Once she shows a card, you can respond by showing her a card of equal value, but lesser value ideally to keep her wanting more.

It doesn't matter that you don't drink... That can actually be turned around to be a plus. Many athletes don't consume alcohol, think of it that way. So you can still be a dominant male and not do things guys your age typically do.

And for the record, if a girl ignores your text, you should rarely follow up with another text... Depending on the situation. So if I were you, I'd have avoided her much much much earlier. And did you actually take her seriously when she told you she'd get back to you in 2 weeks? She was trolling you hard bro. Have a little respect for yourself.

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